Ya know guys like to be surprised too. Guys shouldn’t have to do it all. It goes both ways.. or it SHOULD. Though in my experience? It NEVER does….

TIME and EFFORT is the best gift you can give to your special someone…..

I loved when my husband use to do things like that, just bring me one flower, or bring Taco’s for lunch , just little things, but meant more then if he had got me a dozen roses or a ring. I miss those days., He has passed on now

Even a flower from the garden, a little note saying I love you, a sms or whatsapp message, those don’t cost anything, just a moment of your time ….

But when the female already have baby dadd(ies) this is hard to find true. They just rather keep getting treated like sh*t and dont realize theres someone out there that can love them and there kids better.

It surprised her. So much that you rejected it, gave it back to me, and said not to buy her anything. Haven’t made that mistake since.

Yup. Let her know you love her through these little sweet things, they all love it, they will be loving it UNTIL they meet that guy whose wallet is full of ( $€£ ), then the rules of the game would definitely take a dramatic change. Believe me, All of them say they prefer what’s mentioned above, but they endly would choose ( $€£ )!

Not asking for anything, just want to have the feeling that I’m appreciated and special, and yet none of those listed above are done to me.

My man cleaned the house yesterday, it was such a wonderful feeling to come home to a clean house and I could come home and relax after a long day at work, those are the things that matter to me!

You can get her a car,buy her a house,take her out for a nice dinner,and she would be just as happy if you just called her from work to tell her that you loved her.

Yea their are things that guys can do for us that’s free it’s just time and some effort like just hanging out at the beach well where I’m at the river:)

This is exactly how I feel about a relationship! It’s not about money, it’s about feel about each other and keeping that spark alive!?

It’s the little things. EFFORT that too many people don’t get, but if you truly care for someone you’ll give EFFORT just because you want too.

Molly Meza Flechas I’ll always make sure to make you smile with a rose ? or coffee ☕️ or hot tea on a cold day.
Or a poem from my heart ❤️
and a kiss ? to your sweet lips.

If you think about it all of those things cost money. Unless you take the rose from someone’s garden you have to pay for it. You have to pay for phone service to send a text. Also, unless you live by the beach you have to use gas you pay for to drive there. Lol. In the end those are nice though.

I sure did love my good morning text but most of all I loved it when he had to stop the car real quick and he’d put his arm across me to protect me.

Are there any guys that ever do this kind of thing anymore? It really doesnt take much to show effort… but usually somehow thats asking too much.

This is true but all these things do cost some small amount of money.. true test of love is when they have nothing to give at all and you love regardless. Easier said than done but I believe actions speak louder than words. We can have no food or gas and no money to go out and I will know he loves me because he will fetch the water at a bed time so I don’t get cold, make staying home fun by being silly, tell me that the dinner I made is delicious even though it’s pieced together from… Read more »