I would question this definition… as what can make you question things, change your reality and mark a before and after is a very subjective thing. I would argue that a gun-man opening fire at a shopping mall would likely accomplish all the above… but I doubt any survivors would consider the person their soul-mate. While finding love can do all of this… it isn’t the only thing that can. Just saying…

I have moved on because I have come to accept that concept….if they don’t care about me then I am not attached to them and that can be liberating too. There is good in that kind of sense for me!

Agree 100%. We come in like a freight train to stir sh!t up and help you think about…and realize stuff. You won’t always like us, in fact you’ll hate us most of the time. We don’t come in for the status quo, rather, we come in to challenge you, push you to your limits, and eventually, hopefully, get you to realize there’s a much more capable person inside you. We are right next to as we you help dig up that better you…a stronger more confident better you. Then we selflessly and suppotively stand by you for an eternity.

But my question is.. what if you both know and acknowledge this but your not together? Does it mean you will be eventually? Or does it mean sometimes your not actually meant to be with your soulmate?

I’m not looking fr a perfect one. but I’m looking for someone who understands me not only my words but rather most of my silence.. :] #single
Fall in love with someone who doesn’t make you think love is hard <3

I like this, but this an opposite theory to one of my favorite Buddhist ones. That you’ll feel calm and at peace when you find your soulmate. Believe it or not, I sort of agree with both.

Tell me about it!!!!I was totally screwed up and over analysed EVERYTHING he said or didn’t do and couldn’t figure out if he liked me AT ALL!!!still think I’ll scare him away if he knows the REAL me!!!it was like a bloody storm in my heart and brain for weeks on end x

Mental stimulation to think and to feel and to figure out what makes you love each other even though you can’t be a cats and dogs being with each other