I recently lost someone I love dearly when she moved 1100 miles away to be close to her family once again. We still talk but it was one of the hardest things to do.

I thought that 4 yrs ago i have moved on to way better things after a 22 yr marriage now im happier than i ever was cuz u don’t see right away what hell they put u threw and grieving is a process of elimination…?

Esspecially when they hurt u and u left them n he is telling everyone lies he did it all like he did THAT’S WHY YOU LEFT u think u will fix him first comes love n lust then REALITY can’t wait can’t change the spots on a leopard

Best way to get over an ex is to cut off clean like a dogs tail.. It’ll hurt like hell at first. But a lot less painfull than gnawing it off slowly over a long period of time.

It’s only been 3 weeks but it feels like an eternity without him. He promised he’d never leave no matter what, next thing I know he’s moving to another state, wasn’t there for the birth of our child and wants nothing to do with us. He cares more about his dog than his child. I know I am better off- I think. But it’s only gotten harder. Every time I hold my son I see his father, and my heart shatters to the floor into a million pieces and I can’t help but wonder if I should keep fighting for… Read more »

Not really, the fact that the person is no longer in your life well thats a matter of choice really! If he or she brought absolutely nothing positive to the table then there you go, you’re better off!

When you have a parent or spouse with dementia, you grieve the loss day after day and every day there seems to be another piece lost.

Why is it that it hurts so bad to have to grieve someone that’s alive you care and you love I want that person in your life and life doesn’t deal that card

It’s the worst feeling ever. How do you just get over someone who meant everything to you and it sucks because you can’t do anything about it

We all have to at sometime in our lifetime sometimes several times… but you need to let go for your own well being no matter how hurt you feel x

I’m still hanging on. Breaking my own heart loving him. I don’t know how to quit him. Anybody else I could but I can’t w him.

Totally agree!! It was the most painful situation I’ve gone through. But you eventually get over it and find a special person that makes you feel alive again.

Friends i have an attitude once things have become sour in my relationships and there seem to be no end in sight to the problem, another minute is too precious to waste, i wish you away quickly to allow me to move on. I do not grieve over what was bad in my life.

No kidding. The worst pain in the world because instead of killing you, it just makes you want to stop breathing

I think what it really is, has to do with realization that you mourn the loss of the person you thought they were. Not the person they really are. That can hurt.

Does it even worth it to grieve over one who walked away or you walk away from? you might just be hurting yourself over what do not have anymore, find the strength to let go of it , it was not for you, and if you feel that way of him why not being with him? indicates there is a problem.

And it’s darm hurt to let him go because everything i do or see seems to remind everything about him….can somebody how to let go of this guy,i’m destroyed by this feeling in me for him

Yep. The pain runs deep. But you can’t force someone to want you the way you want them. Forced love won’t last. And why do you want to be with someone who doesn’t feel the same?

My heart goes out for married couples, when one partner loses interest in his married life and family…But still wants all the comforts of home as he lives his own life, while living under the same roof… 🙁

I’m trying to let go I still in shock I was thinking we will together to the end, I keep asking my self what I did or not do ? I keep crying and crying and now that I discover is another woman it hurst more because he told me I m crazy that he don’t even look at another woman . That I was seeing abs making story . God will help me go through this

I’m there. It is a pain that runs deep. Cuts deep. But God dont like ugly and Karma is a bitch. So they can have eachother. I have the greatest gift. I have God with me. We rep what we sow in this life.

I have ‘died’ several my this past week. The thought of him with another is just beyond bearable. But I will learn how to live without him one day. It may take a month or a year but I will surely get there. Be still my heart.

I have had death and I have had someone I love still here and I can tell you which is worse but that is a decision that you will have to answer on your own. I almost took my life over it and now I have to find me.

Since losing my ex boyfriend, everyday is a struggle because I never thought I would lose him. I can’t help still loving him. Everything reminds me of him. It’s so hard to let go.

true..that is reality in life..not everything you want is yours..Letting go is the best specially when you know you are not their happiness…