You can’t fix it all by yourself, all the time!! It takes two, so you walk away when you’re the only one trying to fix things.

But sometimes you have to know when to walk away. Some things can’t be fixed!! It’s the belief that I should stay to fix the problems in my marriage and instead I ended up wanting to suicide. You can’t help someone who doesn’t want to help themselves and I learned that the hard way!

They were talking about TVs not relationships. Our grandfathers didn’t go around calling our grandmothers bitches and whores every other week. And our grandmas actually had respect for themselves and wouldn’t stay with an idiot who does that like women do now days. This has always been the biggest bullshit quote of all time. Ladies you deserve better than “not throwing broken shit away” and staying in an abusive relationship and fellas grow the fuck up and man up, treat your woman how they’re supposed to be treated. Stop with this bullshit quote too.

I still believe in that I believe when you decide to marry that person or stick with that person you’re making a commitment and you’ll do anything to try to fix it

Just stay in an abusive relationship that makes you miserable and physically ill? I didn’t throw away my marriage. I escaped.
I hate this post.

Amen my mom and dad going on 45 year together .. they sometimes can’t stand each other but they always care about each other..??

This is so true….. Today seems people are to in a rush to judge. To in a rush to keep stride with the ever high speed of a World with no breaks. “Take a breather… Find life’s meaning”

I think it really depends on the age group, whether or not there are children or if there is violence, physical or otherwise. You cannot generalise.

It is not about the era from which you are. It is about contributing and supporting 50-50 in a relationship to make it work. Every individual is equal and should be treated the same in a marriage too. And there should not be influence of third person in your marriage.

finding and keeping love was alot better doing it the old school way where people were loyal and honest, i see old folks hand in hand in the street now and i think thats brilliant, too much lies and deceit nowdays, and social media dont help.

Actually, you were born during a time when men did all of the same trifling things they do to this day, but the women weren’t allowed to have an opinion and more than like they couldn’t support themselves so they just stayed. **shrugs*** it’s the #truth

You never fix it. Hopefully over time with love & Patience You can put back the Pieces. Your actions prove care and Devotion. Only then the pieces should stay. Finding everyone you can, and the ones you cannot find. Let the Lord fill in and Fuse together the rest. With love, trust, kindness. Other times “FIX” does not want fixed. Fixed needs to learn on their own that help was there and needs to realize. It’s to late now there’s damage on both sides. Both sides can still be FIXED, but God has to be center and for focus in… Read more »

Some married couples just tolerate each other and are not particularly happy. I much prefer to love and care enough for myself that I would walk away from unhappiness. Life is too short. Sure try and work things out but don’t waste years of your life where there is no love

No, they were born in a time when people had morals. People worked it out instead of go to someone else and cheat. People cheat so easily currently. No one really respects relationships like they did in those days.

No two situations are same and the morale is never same in each case .
Every case is tailor-made and different with different methodology to deal with.
Must look ahead towards the end of retaining and work out the action plan
If not with heart and head than go for gut feeling .
No point to retain the unbearable until unless it is a sacrifice for some loved ones.

Yeah we do. But hinestly its not always entirely up to the person, the relationshio takes two people who are willing to fight for s bright future. Sometimes you want to keep fighting, but your partner doesnt. Yes things are broken, yes it would be the correct thing to fix them… but sometimes you cant fix it by your own and you need help.

Relationships take 2 people to work not just 1. And the most important things in relationships is Trust, Honesty, Care, Love, Respect and most important Communication. Alot of relationships now days lack all this and it’s important to have in a relationship…

For those that cut and ran……They face more KARMA than they ever believed possible……in ways they never dreamed possible…..and left behind them more unhappiness and pain to those they proclaimed to love the most…….once again…please explain how one person in a family is entitled to happiness at so much expense of those around them…….and then, explain the self justification…..Because I just don’t see how…..for those that stayed, and lived the many emotions that relationships endure……They are entitled to the kind of LOVE everyone dreams about……and fewer and fewer are able to achieve. You wear your love in ways to be… Read more »

I agree but for some part disagree. There is for sure a tendency to replace things nowadays, but is it really all bad? Some things are fixable some not, but you gave to understand what is your case and it’s hard, plus it requires both of the people to do.

Theres still some of us out there who think and feel this way. Not all of us are heartless and cold like alot of people out there now days. Some of us still want and crave human interaction without cellphones or laptops.

My husband and I fixed our marriage. Its still a work in progress but 5yrs of marriage and counting. Pregnant with our 4th child and all. We will always continue to work on us. We love each other too much to just give up.

This is only true if both parties will work on fixing the relationship. If it’s one sided, it will never work. Speaking from experience and lots of pain

If the person you are with doesn’t care enough to work on the relationship, leave and never look back. I clung on to this philosophy for 3 years hoping one day my relationship would be magically fixed and be perfect. You can’t fix a guy looking on craigslist for prostitutes. You can’t fix a guy lying about everything to get his way. You can’t fix a guy who will only do things if he wants to. I finally gave up after 3 years and threw that relationship in the trash and it is the best thing I ever did for… Read more »