Some have just had users in their life from their family on down to the exes and some can’t take the truth because they’re used to sugar coaters..don’t be dismayed because the one for you will love the hair on your butt cheeks so forget them??

Loving someone is easy, but to be loved by someone is not that much easy…

Fuck whoever made this post. you’re teaching people to become self centered not to team up in a relationship

Interesting. Nevermind them. Do you understand the way you love and who you truly are? How many times have you walked away from yourself?

Ditto. Learning to either love and not expect or walk away is vital

Yeah, right! Nice one…that’s what you call, a true & unconditional love. =)

Your attitude and behaviour shouldn’t be that way then …

Yes so true. Some of us love to hard to quickly. Me in a nutshell

I didn’t find anyone who understand my feelings for him…

Fully agree so many are scared to open their hearts to someone, I keep my heart and mind open and hope that I find that special someone so that can share our lives

They get insecure then make you insecure. Those kind of people suck and aren’t good to be with. Let it go ✌️
#TrustGod #MoveForward

What if they are a sociopath… and how they love/what they are is lies, deceit, manipulation, projection, deflection, etc. I was very threatened by it, and walked away.

Its not totally walk away sometimes every setwation it needs a distance to let know how we feel or how much you love some one into your life that only a dream can hug and embrace but not in real life ?

My ex was totally threatened by the fact that i had my own money from work….but to him I was a money, hungry bitch who only wanted children to be on pension. Nothing could be further from the truth. He does not want to work. What can you do with that?

I come as is, you can either take it and embrace it or keep on walking. I refuse to change who I am because of someone else’s insecurities, fears or doubts.

Instead of wondering at night ,walking in guilt and feeling shame about your life. forgive yourself for not seeing the betrayal coming, use the waiting period to trust God who promise us that one day there’s no tears but a victory.

I think they get scared and intimated by how big and great my love can be. They always end up backing off after I open my heart up.

A self help book on How to maintain a committed relationship might warrant reading.
#1) make a serious effort to try and please your partner every day in every way. It isn’t about you, it is about them. Dedication to pleasing your partner. When you’ve accomplished that, get back to me for #2!!!!

People want the next best thing these days. Putting in work and being with someone for 30+ years isnt as easily attainable anymore. However; not everyone will subscribe to your brand of love, just stay the course.