So embarrassing to feel they’re also attached to you and then find out you were wrong

So true….is a killer when he wants to be friends and you feel so much more

So very true. They use you and are not true to their feelings. Let you believe they love you.

So very true, I have personally experienced it and it almost destroyed me.

Become the best version of yourself. Strive to be as healthy as you can be physically, mentally and spiritually and don’t let anyone rob you of your happiness

That’s a rule I learned many years ago and to this day still believe in it deeper than ever….

Sometimes you can’t help it. I’m getting rid of the last pains.

Easier said than done, tell your heart this line and it will laugh at you!

Mental abuse is the worst abuse.

Unfortunately had to learn this the hard way. This is so true.

Even people that say they do or should feel the same as you, will rip your heart right out!

If everyone went by this, no one would get attached ?

Bit hard when they lie to you about how they feel whilst secretly seeing someone else.

Yep that is true. Mentally and emotionally destroyed right now.

This is very true but what happened when it seems like they are just as in to you. Then they leave with no reason. You think this fricks you up.

I agree. Mine told me I was marriage material and at Thanksgiving he was thankful for to his family. Left a week later. I’m completely devestated.

I’ve apparently become attached again despite my efforts not to. Was disappointed by this person on Friday and have been in bed for 2 straight days now. It’s devastating ?

But the ladies love this, why else you think the friend zone exists ? Don’t get mad at me, is this not how it starts ? Apparently girls are cool with it.

That’s all good looking from the outside of a person or a relationship.
Yet until you experience when a person, especially a woman “Love Bomb” another person.
You have no idea of the power a Narcissist Personality Disorder type person has.

They will appear to be the kindest, most loving, most caring person you have ever met.
Until your allowed to see the mask fall off.

No one gets too attracted to anyone with intentions sometimes your mind is not in you control so you can’t say choose the people before getting attached. Doesn’t make any sense

Totally agree. Love is blind. The higher of expectation is the lower of happiness,It kinda humiliated when you found out they are not attached to you like the way you get in to them. You’re better love your self as much as you can . Mentally and spirituality don’t let anyone get too close to your heart and get rid of your happiness. People will come in your life and left you eventually, you may stick with them for sure . I’ve been through of personally experienced once and it accurately destroyed my everything, nothing can heal it but time… Read more »

Amen. If you’re not sure, take a little inventory every so often. Is he or she initiating contact, planning dates, returning calls? Are you being blown off? It may not be obvious to you but pay attention. The signs are there.
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Very true, and its better to not disappoint yourself if you think they will have ur back, bend over backwards for you or just plain and simply listen to you when u have a bad day or even better a good day. That’s what some of us would do for our other half…

Well sometimes if ur naturally a good person u would always be good and that makes u seem attached to the person. When u feel the person doesn’t reciprocate your goodness, I think it would be best not to expect.