I give way too many chances because I see the good in people. It may be a speck, but I *see* it.
When I’m done after I’ve been put through enough and treated in a way no one should be, they like to think of me as the bad guy, play victim, and get others on their side who give me crap about how horrible I am for “giving up”/”no effort”. Those people who believe them don’t live it and choose to ignore the clues (or truth told) to what really goes on.

Thanks for every post in this page exactly I can relate for everyday happened in my life.. I feel good even how its hard feel from my heart.

I can forgive once but not twice and Yeap no 2nd chance if you do, they end up being abusive and disrespectful

Sometimes mistakes happen so evaluate the mistake and the genuineness of their apology – we all deserve forgiveness and some of us deserve second chances

As much as this might be true to some people, as experience has taught me, it’s right in only a few cases. Not everyone is the same. So y’all can’t say that once one person disappoints you, it’ll happen again. Because it won’t.

It’s just very hard to find someone who wants something real and lasting I can’t and want settle just to have someone in my life…

But what choice do we have, ain’t no perfect people. Try to sort out the sick who hurt to hurt for some sick reason from those who don’t.

Being a yo-yo isn’t fun either. Respect works both ways. If you can’t respect me, and know what you want in life, I’m happily gone.

I can’t allow my self to fall back at some one who deeply hurt me before an even if my heart did move for them again I will suppress it down becos they don’t worth d move of my heart. D best is to stay far from such person to avoid another closeness story.

I think it’s true an the worst part about that is when they lye their are other lyes an other lyes on an on an I think if you married the other person that he contacts is no better them him cause she is a lyer too, cause she knows that he is married

With that kind of attitude you should probably stay single. In a serious relationship you better be willing to give out more than one chance every day.lol

I have felt that the indication of a person’s future performance is their past performance. Have no expectations of anything different than what they have done. There are exceptions but…..

TOTALLY disagree with this. Truly healthy relationships demand an almost constant forgiveness because WE(both parties involved) will screw up EVERY-SINGLE-DAY. No forgiveness=No love

I wouldn’t say that. Some people are very genuine when they say they will change. I give them two chances. After I hit three with no results, welll…..
Fool me once, shame on you.
Fool me twice, shame on me.

This is a stupid Quote. I disagree. Everyone gets hurt ! sometimes intentional sometimes not intended. But there is no way not to hurt someone . Sometimes no on realizes when they hurt someone . It doesn’t have to be a big hurt. It could be something small. So I 100% Disagree with this quote. I Think if it becomes repetitive and the one that hurts shows now change in hurting you. Then you decide. But this is just Stupid !!

Walang unli sorry sa relasyon. Lahat napapagod… lalo na pag paulit ulit lang na ginagawa. The more you give unli-chances to people, the more they neglect you! The more they will feel at ease to do bad things again and again! Kasi at the end of the day alam nilang pag nagkasala ulit sila, bibigyan mo ulit sila ng chance! But this time, stop…think…and give yourself some respect ??

If someone thinks like this, they will never keep anyone around. Mistakes do happen and forgiveness is part of a healthy relationship. It is how one handles it afterwards that you should pay attention to.

Sometimes you have to give them more chances, not just quit on the first mistake. But then it gets so freaken exhausting, that theres no other choice but to let go and thats the tough part.?

We’ve both hurt each other…and I know mine wasn’t intentional , I know you Cj,
Yours wasn’t either…we get upset and said and did stupid shit…
I’m sorry
I love you unconditionally
Without regrets … never had any
I just want us forever and always

No harm in loving someone from a distance . its doesn’t mean you hate them or you don’t love them . it just means that you want too live your life happy. Forgive but don’t forget too Guard your heart !

I don’t get why. Someone would go out of there way to hurt someone. Why someone would go out of their way to make life difficult. But I also didn’t see what happened to me coming either. So who knows anymore.

That is so true because if a person love you you they will not hurt you or put themself in the position to lose you . To me it’s more like a gain than a lost, the only loser is them because they lost a good woman or good man.

To a point though, most people just bail for the dumbest stuff. Online dating made it way to easy for people to bail and not work it out. That’s why relationships now days don’t last. One ill thing and they’re on the web looking for someone else. There’s give and take to every relationship.