Mine was such a smooth talker. He was a narc. Methodical in everything he did and said. Talked about bad men as if he was nothing like them. In the end he was just describing himself. Easy for narcs to walk when they get caught because they had another in waiting the whole time.

Because they were young and they wanted cock inside of them by multiple partners i have lost 80lbs since seeing the last 5 of my exes and they all wanna get back with me women see a pretty face that will pay for their life and i refuse to pay for their life so i am single.

I’ve asked myself those questions over and over for the past few months. After I gave everything I had for almost two years she just walked away then said she didn’t love me anymore. How am I supposed to ever trust anyone again? It was gone in a flash and the sad thing is I’m afraid she’s gone forever.

It’s not always thAt easy when someone who has lied to u for six months … and instead of coming clean … I had to find out the hard way. And now he is begging me for a second chance .. says he will do whatever it takes to prove it to me!!! He’s willing to put in the time … but I just don’t know if I can give him my heart again after he was the one who broke it!!!!

The feels ??? can no longer remember how many times someone made me feel this way sooo much. I just couldn’t imagine how did I survive struggling alone anyway?!

It’s really difficult but sometimes it should be cz of getting disrespected enough, the fear of an unhealthy tomorrow enough, hence for the self-respect..

Tht the position i am right now,i just can’t forget those memories so easly and move on,i mean just see the first step of moving on

That’s a question that haunts me all the time my ex and I were together 11 years she walked away from me and married somebody 2 years later what does happened to the memories and the question is did they ever really love you it still stings

that’s the questioned I’ve asked to myself repeatedly, why is leaving are that easy for this someone I used to love. but I never cared at all, after all the lies,cheating . I realized I was a too fool nurturing a self made bullshit.

I’m so adorable or I’m so cute I always hear. And tonight is the first night in almost six months I’m gonna sleep in our bed for the first time alone. But I’m not crying for my loss I’m crying for her loss. That I’m such a jerk to some of my really good friends and I’m gonna try not being such a jerk now. Lol I’m just protecting so don’t get mad. I’m gonna wait a couple of years and then I’m gonna get married. Lol two years is not that long. Now I just need prayer. My heart… Read more »

Sometimes you have too, and as easy as it seems its not, its fucking hard and goddamn heart wrenching to the point that at times when your asleep, you wake up with feelings of your heart getting ripped out your chest and all you want to do is scream at the world why couldn’t it work, why is this so hard and why of all things the person you want you can’t keep? Its because you know your part of the story with them is over, so no… Its not easy and yes it seems like it was and we… Read more »

speaking only for myself, I hang on and hang on and hang on until I’m just done. It takes me a crazy long time to let go of someone, but once I hit that wall, there’s no going back. It’s not something I’ve ever done lightly, or without pain, but walking away from toxic people is necessary for self-preservation.

I disagree with this so much. I am being accused of this right now. It’s not that we just erase all that stuff and we are fine, back to our life.. We deal with the loss as well. We have daily reminders of all that we had. We miss that talk till 4 in the morning, we miss and have to break the habit of the morning and night text.

It’s not all a bed of roses for the one who makes the decision to leave, trust me.

Nope he didn’t… And now i no longer have any fucks to give.. He can do whatever and whom ever he wants, Least I’m free of his bull shit.

It happens only when one goes out of the way to keep them happy……but they take you for granted for so long….that u end up by becoming emotionally tortured n then emotions finally die.
Because it hurts so much becoz of them that u can’t say even a word out of ur mouth.

Right, or I don’t get how they can still be with that person and do all that but yet be texting someone else the same thing! The same like WTF , just be single and stop messing with people’s head!!

You finely get tried of being used. The memories will always be there even if the people don’t want to be.

It becomes easier when someone shoves you out of their life, never opened up directly to you. Didn’t make time to appreciate what they had. When it’s no longer healthy. It’s nice to move on and be healthy for the next relationship

Also it’s not easy because as you sit there going through the process your mind doesn’t shut up. Wondering if they’re happy, thinking about you. Etc. many times I’ve done this to my partners just complete shut out but it doesn’t mean my mind shuts them out. It’s just a healthier way

It’s easy. You took me for granted. I waited and waited, but you failed to reciprocate in any meaningful way. The level of effort put forth between us was disproportionate, and I got sick of it. I got sick of you. I cared more than you know, and now that I’m gone, you will realize that I was the best thing that ever happened to you. I bet you weren’t expecting that one, huh? The moral of the story is that you should never ask a question that you don’t want to know the answer to…especially if you overestimate your… Read more »

He didn’t and the reality dawns on me wen its too late wen i had given my all…some people are heartless

It’s not about caring, it’s about wether or not you are getting what you need from all of those interactions. If you don’t get what you need from them then you have to walk away from them. They still matter, but they can’t be a driving force if you don’t get what you really need from them.

Never care is a lie.. of course you care, too much and keep getting disappointed or you thought things would work out but at the end, it was false hope… he doesn’t like/love you, only enjoys you being there (because he is lonely?) Would you still stay? What can you do when the person was never ready? He doesn’t want to commit yet. Would you wait?

Nope. they didnt. But in todays World its not the least bit surprising. And its just further indication you Really meant nothing to them. Move on. They did. Why question it When They didnt hesitate?

I’ve wondered this to and it was obvious I was more invested in our relationship than he was. But he is the “at the time, I did” kinda guy. Which makes it much more hurtful and worse to me. ?

She never care and will never be! It’s obvious that I’m just someone she can just dispose off anytime and to easy to live without. Memories are just temporary that she dont even care to remember. She can laugh and talk to other people so it doesnt make any change to her. Goodmorning and goodnight just turned into a habbit so nothing special for her. I love a person who dont even give a damn to ask how do I feel. I fall to someone and gave all the love I have. Now here I am alone, bitter about love,… Read more »