Yep. You can only fix yourself. No one else can. They can be there for support. But only you can fix yourself. X

No need to fix me and dont even try..
Memories are mine!!

Some people don’t even want to be loved while they fix themselves as much as you would love to stay and love them. ?

I did!!! To no avail. Some people are just not ready to fight real battles!

But sometimes you do need their help so you can if yourself

However we always give advice whether it is needed or not lol

This is true but they won’t listen to hard they don’t no what true love is

Yaa..plz don’t waste ur time to fix me..
don’t ever think that..i ain’t like it..I know what I’m doing.. juz luv me if u want to..& I appreciate that..or juz go..?

” I do not need you to save me, I need you to stand by my side while I save myself ” This is a more proper version and not as easily misconstrued as the post

Going through this now. Except I’m the one loving the one finding himself.

People get set in there ways leave it be Free Spirit…?

I learn to forgave,,but the trust not the same way before,,,love first our self;enjoy life,,,

I think, we cannot change someone. We can only inspire them and always be there for them. If they ask you for help so then you can intervene. Respect is i believe always the key to a healthy relationship.

I did, I do but you have to change your mind and come back. I miss you and wish you would tell me why you left?

What if they never get around to trying to fix themselves?

I know they say love yourself first but seriously a little outside intervention doesn’t hurt.

That’s all I need and I did that for her all the time I’m still willing to do that but she just want it from someone else…. my love isn’t enough ??

As a man, I always try to find ways to “fix” problems. That’s not always the best way to deal with situations. Listen, understand, love, and be there for her. Simple, but I somehow messed it up

I’ve been in a few relationships with good women with bad problems drugs cheating, verbally abusive ect I tried helping one I had a family with for eleven years who cheated lied about it but I stuck around for the kids but it mentally fucked me up she wasn’t ready to change cause she had so many problems but never wanted counseling or help with those problems so she could only handle being in a fucked up relationship then being with a man who loves her but she couldn’t handle it cause I wouldn’t slap her around or be abusive,… Read more »

No matter how much intervention you make on a person, if they’re not ready to change then all your efforts are for naught…i say, let em be free to walk thier path and learn the lessons the hard way.

Well, the man then told the woman.
You should have take that time when you were single to fix yourself.
Instead being an alcoholic, partying to all hours of the morning and having sex with so many different men.

The single years are supposed to be for growth, not self destruction.

I cannot love the person while he is in process of molding himself to a better person. I believe it will be painful in my part.

Learned/learning this one the hard way. Almost lost my best friend from over[-reaching, -bearing, -expecting, -doing]. I’m figuring out what it means to ACTUALLY help someone on the inside.