Oh I have stopped, and they don’t even care enough to know it. Lol. So why should I?

Wow it’s hard to believe how many people care about others that don’t care about us

I gave so much time to others. And I might have gotten a fraction of that in return… ? Never again…

Ha ha ha..no time for that..Some how I rather to occupy my time with beautiful things on my own..rather than with them who never checking on me..DUH!! ?

That’s me always putting everyone’s needs in front of my needs

I’ve always wanted to know something, when people send those pass on pictures, or picture gift, or poke you, is that checking up on you????????????????????

Yes exactly 100% because when they aren’t checking on you hello they are with someone else and could care less about you.

Yes. Agreed.. They have their own life. Let them be.. Pray for their happiness.

I check up on lots of people. I don’t expect much, mostly their happiness.

I need to quit doing this one for sure!! All I get are lies, lies, lies anyway

Easier said than done. I care to much about to many people. Some that I shouldn’t care about.

People show there true colors when you step back for a minute. Let them stay where they are then ✌

It’s just a matter of priorities. who really cares about you will find a time to look for you and will make an effort so, know ur value and don’t treat someone as a priority while those treats you as an option ..

Well,i have my family and my friends that check on as much as i check on them because thats what friendship is for,but i strongly need an honest girl to check on and be with for the rest of my life and have a big family together despite defrences

Yes, it’s tough to except they no longer care about you

People make time for who they want to make time for. People text, call and reply to people they want to.Never believe anyone who says they are too busy. If they wanted to be around you they would.

This is so sad but true. I had realized and started doing this about 5 years ago that relationships should be reciprocated. When it’s not and it’s only one-sided for years, you have to re-evaluate its value. Sad?

Its all a domino effect, you dont want to but when that person pops in your mind every time you drive by one of your old places wether it be a restaurant or a park or even a street or by the highway close to her job- what do you do? Not go to work? and seems like every song playing on the radio reminds you of her- what can you do, not listen to radio? its hard not want to check on them, its not stalking lets not get it confused. But when you care about some one that… Read more »

just stop. It’s hard not to care but they obviously don’t and that’s wasted energy. Use the energy on yourself and wish them all well. Do better. You’ll reach a point where you just don’t care anymore. Love this post

yep, road runs both ways…if you’re the only one putting in effort to go see or meet up with someone, you’re expendable to them…sad but true…I’ve found when I quit doing the going & calling it’s done except for an occassional hey

Relationships are not all about you, did you ever think of that? That yes, sometimes one sided, but what reasons? Maybe the person has anxiety and a phone call is difficult. Maybe the person is depressed and struggles with daily life? Maybe they don’t want to bother others because of their own lack of self worth.

Maybe don’t be selfish, be selfless, check on the person even if there is no gain for you.

Sometimes i do check for that person and see if things doing fine with him, but its too hurtful because that person dont even bother to check on me.

It’s sad when you care for someone who doesn’t care at all because the person doesn’t know you care! Lol That is the sad part, it is not because the other person does not reciprocate but because you keep it to yourself and sometimes it hurts. Just my experience. Just have to stop caring!hahahahah