Yep .. if they really care they go with you n stand by your side . They have reason why they couldn’t go with you but they couldn’t tell their friend no also …

Exactly what I need to do… go find me a man that puts in as much effort as me & gotta quit wasting my time on these lame lil boys!!!

Thank you. Sometimes we forget these things and need a reminder.

That is so true a man that want to make a relationship work would want to see her all the time and even with a woman would if she wants it to work

Even if it is the most ridiculous reason, worth every minute

If he wants you he wants you no matter what…if he wants to play around he will definitely play around….man or woman….its just about who is being serious…

True but sometime it’s a waste of time because she don’t looking for a reason to be with that man

BROTHERS, ya gotta be PRESENT in the relationship. But, this is what I know… if a man is interested, he’ll show up.

Love and Relationships are simple : Match the woman’s effort. Always. and know when it’s time to let go ✌?️

Yes, goes both ways, was always there for her and did everything but still got fucked. Only use to her was an ATM.

There r million reasons of excuses another excuses for ur unfaithfulness but there is one reason to on hold..The honesty reason & the sincerely act..that r u truly in relationship..??

Means keep running behind her even she is not willing :-/ its a relationship not a donkey cart that one person keep pushing it fwd:|

I always say you don’t know someone until you’ve been with them for about a year..after the newness wears off. Are you still their #1..

If a man has any confidence and knows he’s an ok guy, he seriously has to respect the females right to put him in the friend zone! It has to be mutual!

hmm I’m confuzed on this one
if ur help her bring support her every day and push her to get a better job then y or what went wrong

He doesn’t do any of this because he is so so very serious about us. He will find the time even if it means flying me out with him for work. ????

I never quit. She found reasons not to see me. I worked around her schedule and in the end she left me with no reason. No communication, no contact just ghosted me. The only thing she ever told me was love drove her away. Love.

This says it all!!! A man who pushes you into bed as soon as you walk through the door is no man! He is just a guy who wants your … and uses the word love like TP. A real man makes sure to help out!!! Never talks down or belittles your imperfections or insecurities! He builds you up because a strong woman will hold a strong man and keep a strong man!!!!!!!!!!!

If anyone can spare a couple of Gs for me to get to the Philippines. There is a woman that wants to be my soul mate. She is real and I’ve never met anyone else like her. Trust me I am not making excuses. My ex gf left me broke and a huge part of me wants her to come back!!! If I get to the Philippines I’m never gonna take her back!!! Now to just wait and see what happens!! Maybe God will open up the eye’s of my ex or maybe he will open up the heart of… Read more »

Absolutely true. Funny they can also make excuses as to why or how they moved someone else into their house who was a female and claimed it was a roommate only thing and nothing more while you were states away but never said anything to you but it was innocent and during all that time didn’t make time what so ever to come see you but had time for everything else.

Ouch! that is true in some cases but in my case I have been too afraid of the outcome to make it happen. I’m not sure if I can make it there this winter though, my excuse is thatI’m in the middle of a project right now and need all the money that I can scrape to complete it, but I wI’ll prepare myself to be shot down in flames next summer.lol

Haha, Oh yes, so true. But then you have to think Why settle for this when there will always be someone out there somewhere who would appreciate you and love to see you.

That’s funny I just got done telling one of my exs if I worth the time don’t bother making plans them blow them off last minute sadly I never was worth her time but I made sure I was worth her time blowing plans off to see her. The irony is I stumble on this just after I told her.

True! Excuses! Excuses! So many reasons not to pursue a relationship when at the start, he who’s so eager to be with you, hold you and after all, he will say, “HE HAS FALLEN OUT OF LOVE”

Please be direct to the point! If you have another girl then say it!!!