Dont let the routine kill your relationship…work, responsabilities, we got frustrated, tired….we forget to take care of each other, and to love daily each other…

Tried but when the other person is no longer trying or not happy it’s best to go your separate ways and wish them well

Sad thing is once they have you, they will stop doing those things what they did to get you..

… And she’ll still bang a unemployed ex con while your at work

All Lies LETS SAY I DID BUT DIDN’T I WOULD LION KING MYSELF…if I knew what I know Now instead of TRYING to help I’ll run So FUCKIN far away and Never look back like Now…

People get comfortable and feel like the things they did to get the guy or girl no longer need to be done. That’s when problems start until the end.

That’s what I’m saying! Once you make someone feel unimportant then they will flock to the next person that does. No one wants to feel invisible.

Exactly, that the way that always should be and never change to go back …always improve in your relationship, be romantic, caring and loving with your partner..

Just a matter of consistency…. And everything will be okay…????? Well………. I dunno…???….. Blanks and so many spaces…. Braindead…..speechless….. Gone…

But then again there are still people who just dont get contented and will end up looking for somebody else who they think is much better than you ?

Exactly but it has to be mutual communication, honesty, love, and respect. If its not 50/50 no matter how hard one tries it will not work

Like…..put her first ? Be loyal, honest & faithful ? Try desperately to make her happy ahead of my own needs ?….I never stopped. Still wasn’t enough. Now she’d rather I was dead. It’s a cold world.

But it fades when you exactly don’t know how he suddenly fell out of love. What an excuse?!! Just say that you have another girl!! Why don’t you be direct to the point?

What if the beginning was not so cool? What if the beginning was based on lies? What if in the beginning she was cheating but realised that she didn’t need that crap anymore and decides to really love you and then you find out later that the beginning sucked? I guess continuing with the beginning won’t be such a good idea.

Thank you! Men for some reason will do anything to get the woman they want, but when they get her they stop trying. I mean, you got her! Good! Can you keep her though? 😉 And of course us ladies too, should do the same! It takes work, to make it work!!!

Some relationships started at the wrong side of the bed.. That is not what this post is telling about
But for most couples it does.. This is what most of them failed. As the day went on together ..they go far from where they both started.
As they discover things from each other.. they change as if they don’t know each other.
People change and so does partners. Promises are really meant to be broken so they say but which side of the bed u wanna stay.Depends not on one but from the TWO.. TOGETHER as ONE

Sometime it’s you as an individual that changes,and you realize that what you thought made you happy really doesn’t any longer ,you can’t expect others to understand but sometimes you get stuck and the other person never want more from life and you expect them to reach higher want more and better yet they sit still.growth is a part of life if one wants to grow and one wants the same thing,its kinder to move on than pretend you want to sit stagnant for the rest of your life.

I did but I can’t be with someone who spends 90% of their time on Facebook.. I left a 6 year marriage because he did that and spent to much time on his phone and ignored me

That is the hard part….but if you work hard it grows so much deeper than that butterfly stuff anyway!! Those that put the work in have something more amazing. Kids, work, life all change a relationship and doing what you did in the beginning isn’t feasible. But maintain effort and you will have something amazing at the end. Communicate and stress less at each other is the way to go!

Yeah but people have found other ways nowadays. “Dissapearing act” even though at the beginning everyone looks nice.

Relationships take lots of effort and commitment from both parties. It takes both people to be loving and caring. Always making an effort to let each other know how you feel for them and the things you appreciate…… Sometimes you don’t notice it appreciate what you have so take a minute and reflect.

Nothing has changed on his part. The drinking, calling me names, blaming me for everything. And you want me to go back to acting like a gf and rewarding him for bad behavior? I think not!!!