Real talk. It’s a natural way and as a girl you may not believe in it, and yet you have that strong feeling the way he treats you naturally. Just love deeply, truly, pray for one another and everything will be added. 🙂

Hope the men won’t talk around the bush..walk to walk..talk to talk..
Annoying & irritating tho’..??

I think my intentions are pretty clear. I thought you got the memo.

Hahaha maybe someone one day will show me what that’s all about then, I won’t hold my breath!

And in my case, when I communicate this, they find an excuse to run the other way. #MustBeNice #MaybeSomeday #NeverSettle

I’m not looking fr a perfect one. but I’m looking for someone who understands me not only my words but rather most of my silence.. :] #single
Fall in love with someone who doesn’t make you think love is hard <3

Yup! Upfront communication and CONSISTENT effort that NEVER gets appreciated. While women will leave you guessing and dangling by a string……

I just all the ones who cant help but lie for some reason or make promises that they cant or really dont want to keep!!

I don’t care anymore about man or about being love n beloved ? I found happiness n peaceful life being single, maybe I am unlucky in love. But I still have love in my heart that I will give to peoples around me, my family, my friends and those who needed ? I am here to love ❤️

We will never achieve the love & acceptance we all desire & fundermentally need..”If” we are not prepared to wear our hearts on our sleve & “be” vulnerable..Regardless of how scary that is, or anothers fears or actions. .Too many people live in their fears, playing the Im going to act how you do, game. Or sit back, out of their own insecurity, expecting to be chased. Expecting others to prove themselves…So intimacy, trust, gets suffocated. Then all their fears, they create!…It is up to “us” as individuasls, to aknowledge & addres what are “our” issues. What isnt working for… Read more »

Lady’s if a man is treully intrested atleast show um the curtissee that your intressted aswel or not. And don’t ignore um or treat um like an option. Thank you

Nd that girl will friendzone him, avoid him and then ultimately reject him, and at the end they will say – ‘you deserve better than me’. Yeah right, we believe that

One would think. Men and women leave people they really want or love guessing all the effing time. Many hide their feelings, are afraid to get passed their pride, or whatnot. It shouldn’t be that way, but it is. The last part about good men (or women) is right. Some good people lose their way when they want someone, but there are obstacles, such as situations or personal issues, in the way. (I do not lose my way or give confusing signals. I know what I like and what’s needed. People, like my ex I love, come in confusing you,… Read more »

And they just don’t up and dump you without a word and the next thing you know they are bragging on social media about their new girl. When they haven’t told the last girl anything period the end! Ugh!!

I’ve been married 20 years but would not have been married if either of us followed this meme. It IS a great ideal but unfortunately, this isn’t the ideal (heaven) yet so, lots of gray areas to ride out. We’ve had a rough ride but now have a good friendship and marriage. It is SO important to get the friendship going first before romance but I’ve never done well with that. But, it is the IDEAL.

What it should read is “a confident man that is truly interested…”

There are so many of us with completely shot self confidence from being chewed up and spit out by the ones we think we love. Our only recourse is to often bottle up our feelings in the hope that we won’t be hurt – at least if you haven’t mastered the art of saying “fuck it.”

Ironically, the insecurity that makes a woman wonder has literally nothing to do with the man.

It’s internal. All the pursuit in the world will just leave him worn out, while she isn’t even sure if he likes her.

You figure it out and let me know.
Mystery.

First of all good intentions get you nowhere! It’s best to leave things alone sometimes and guard your emotions so you don’t get hurt!!! There are a lot of none caring females out there who don’t think twice about hurting a good person but will over some bad boy dirt bag who uses them in every way!! Good guys do finish last and I pray all these female get what they deserve!!! In karma what goes around comes around!!! The law of sowing and reaping!!!!!!

I gave her all I had and she told me I have forever sealed a spot in her life thay will never be taken away from her or myself. Unfortunately I do not get to spend my life with her. I only hope that manifesting your thoughts comes through

In my experience, women will take that candid statement, overthink it, measure it against the battery of bad relationships she’s had, let her man-hating bestie chime in, completely rejuxtapose the original statement into something not even close to the original meaning and intent, squander what would have been a great opportunity, then blame the failure on men not knowing what they really want.

Both parties should be clear about their intentions, make effort, and show the other they care if they truly do. Not just one sided.

Your posts are always one sided towards the favor of women and against men…
It’s NOT just the man who needs to work for a relationship, the woman needs to do her part to make him feel special too!!! Gosh!!!

This is very true, my lovely man is the only guy that ever did this, from day one I never had to over think or worry as I knew exactly where I stood and never had any doubts he was interested in a proper relationship and was not just ‘having fun’ or playing games… made me realise how much time and worry was wasted over other guys in the past… feeling very thankful…