Sad but true. It’s very interesting when someone can just turn off their feelings and act as if they could careless about you. Psychology I’ll never understand it.

I’ve written but I’ve never sent. Some things are better left unsaid.

Its so empowering for you.Do it.Respect yourself 1st,Always

It took me long to accept it. And the most helpful person to help me do it was the same one. I am grateful to her that she came into my life to teach me a great lesson.

Throwing those stuff somehow a nice move. But make sure your heart and mind does–if don’t,it really won’t make sense at all.

If you don’t allow yourself to heal and move on, you will be stuck in this dark spot you’re in. Trust me it’s not easy but it needs to be done for you to get over that person..

My life is in peaces guys,the food can’t go down my throut,im tonne arpat,everything seems to remind me him,,i can’t imagine life without this person,now how can i move on,,please tell me how to take even just the first step….

Its really hard to forget someone memories specially when u have loved him so deeply. Erase his numbers wnt do anything but we have no choice to move on just to keep us alive.

This is not about relationship only. Also friendships. We can’t find ourselves begging friends who don’t make time for us. I always say if you don’t have time for me why must I make it for You.

Unfortunately once a kid gets thrown in the mix this becomes somewhat impossible, even if he is a total deadbeat… also doesn’t help when his fiance he didn’t bother telling you about when you were together is constantly stalking/harassing you online…

I wish that someday I will find a someone who would love me true and never play with my feelings,who respect me alot and loyal..I been married with a someone for one year only after he cheated and lots of lies from his family and him but I thought he was the one for me but Its got wrong.. He always blamed me,and verbal abused..and always told that he don’t love me anymore..all he want just a games… And I chose to left him because I’m tired of him I never felt that he love me true..but now I’m going… Read more »

Hey it works .. this guy used me and I made a stand deleted his number and stopped talking to him. Now I can finally move on and have a happy life .

Will deleting messages and number will delete the same in our memories too? So this will not work out until you happen to hate her which is not gonna happen.. So you’ve got no choice other than sobbing within …

The number has long been deleted from my phone but I can’t delete it from my head.

U know u came out stronger when even staying there doesn’t make much difference.
Don’t punish yourself , just move on. There are many things in life to do. Which my friend are really important.

This is so so TRUE and very sad…. they dont realize that they push you to the breaking point and when they finally have to face the consequences of their actions they ask BUT WHY…. Why are you leaving… Why cant we work this out….. Why cant we just forget this happened and move forward…. WHY WHY WHY…. Well its too late you had so many chances and you threw them away thinking i will never leave cause i love you so much but thats just why i left cause i LOVE me more…. and having your head and your… Read more »

Very true. And, to be fair, you aren’t that person anymore either. And that’s ok, too. The longer you try to hold onto that, the more misery it will bring you.

That being said, although the texts and stuff are gone, I’ve still got that phone number. You just never know. 🙂

That’s bullshit you can’t just erase the memories of someone by deleting their conversation, messages or pictures.
If they really had value in your life they can’t be replaced ever.

If someone wrongs you, hurts you or betrays you and you feel like they became someone else, they didn’t. You just see them for what they always were but you couldn’t see it until then because they tricked you into wearing rose colored glasses. Take those glasses off and look at life in HD Reality. See that person for what they really are and make lemonade like Beyoncé and move on

Delete the number, it’s hard but do it. Unfriend on social media, their life is theirs and yours is yours. Seeing them move on won’t heal your heart. Spend time with loved ones, try as many new things as possible, make your own adventures happen. Live life and when someone new comes along, you will be in a good place to try again ?

To everyone of you who gave a shout out to the ones you love saying you will never hurt them or cheat, I admire that in all of you. We need more people out there who would never cheat on someone. My ex cheated on me and its still taking me a long time to move on. It’s hard. God bless you all for being honest and faithful.

Deleting numbers won’t help… I keep it.. But I manage not to send him text and call.. That’s when I know.. I have moved on!

Had to!! That door was slammed shut without my choosing. I didn’t need him, I CHOSE him. But he chose something else, so now I’m choosing me!! ????

I was madly in love with my ex of 8 years.. yes I said 8 years. He adored me too I know he loved me to death..BUT After the fourth year he just completely changed funny thing is his ex and her sister warned me that he was going to eventually be very verbally and mentally and emotionally abusive. He constantly was mistaking my kindness for weakness a real man does not do that. I finally got the strength and courage to tell him to leave my house and do not come back. I cannot believe I actually kept that… Read more »

But maybe I want the memories, so I can remember that there was a time when I felt alive and happy. Knowing that, maybe I could keep hope that I could feel the same way again