It hurts when this happens-yet the fact is-he is working and spending mostly of his time at work with an ex of 68 years old and his 36 then if not he’s with Mum of 78 years old as Mamas Boy. So nothings left for me and he just see me when it suited his schedule…I’m gettin out of it now.

We both fear rejection! I miss her more than she will ever know!

Well i do care,and i know we both are missing each other.But i can’t contact her,i’m afraid of hurting her…

Missing someone is a part of D chapter called moving on . . . . .

I hope one day you remember me. Still waiting for you to come back and say sorry for everything you done to me. And promise not to do it again.

fear and insecurities are always going to be the end of a great thing, i refuse to believe ego to main reason, but the after math of dealing

Sometimes my man’s ego is so largely inflated, it would take a rocket launcher to bust it! Anyone know where I can find a rocket launcher?

It’s not ego for me, it’s the fear of being rejected. Time is a header after being hurt but you also protect your heart from getting hurt/broken again ?

It’s not ego all the time. Sometimes it’s fear and hurt. Selfishness perhaps.
I don’t pretend ever though. I’m too honest. Lol

Sometimes it’s called “denial”. If it’s been over 6 months of going round & round with your man, you catch him in lies, he’s cheated on you, you take him back and he STILL continues to not make you a priority in his life with excuses like I’m busy or I don’t have the money or whatever the case, then he truly does NOT care about you and it’s time to love yourself and find a man who is into you! None of this is rocket science.

Sometimes it’s not ego..it is what you have been through even when it was not your fault..and she had a choice.. and she choose to leave! that is what making to pretend as if there is no care!

It’s not always ego…. sometimes it’s choice to ignore the person we loved the most cause they fucked us over in the 1st place

Sometimes it’s not the ego… It’s the fear of being rejected!!

It’s called “Knowing your Worth.” If someone doesn’t see it nor try to back up their words with actions, then you have a right to. If they’re acting like they don’t care, they you should too. But don’t do it to manipulate them or to make them do something for you. Do it because you know you don’t deserve to be treated like that don’t care.

Ego? Or just a poor choice? Once your actions show the truth, there is no need or reason to stick around! Your time is to valuable nowadays!

It’s true she pretends that she doesn’t miss me but because she has a fear of commitment and doesn’t like accountability she refuses to make a great love work. We both love each other so much but her Ex continues to be a problem and she refuses to put him in his place. I love Cindy with all my heart and she has decided other things are more important. One day our paths will cross again and will be the final pieces of our growth to fill the voids left behind for us, I truly believe that!!

When things don’t work out for various reasons, it’s better to move on… despite that person being most important coz we lose trust, respect and lastly love in the process

Whether it is ego, pride, stuborness or fear of what other will think… when it comes to love those things will ruin relationships. If you have a fight and break up because your hurt or angry. Take time to cool off. Dont keep looking for reasons to hate him/her look at all the reasons you love them and ask yourself is this how i want it to end or can we work this out?

…no pretending here…other side. ..maybe..but I am beginning to wonder if I even mattered at all… ??

Ya…..thats why i’m so not into any ego game like that. For me, either u take it or leave it. Don’t try playing any mind game with me. It usually comes from a player.

Ego and not swallowing pride and saying sorry and owning up to your mistakes are the hardest things on a Relationship. Especially when the blame gets placed on your significant other because taking accountability for the things you say and do sucks. And telling your significant other it doesn’t feel good being told what I do wrong. This ultimately causes your SO to shut down emotionally from you because you don’t take responsibility and constsntly push it on her and blame her for everything when really would she be saying those things if you weren’t a little at fault?

That y i had to finally say boy bye for good ✌✌
He wants to be acting funny..well Im gonna move my ass right along and move on..no time for games..

The thing is… don’t pretend. Just stop missing him. Life is too short for that shit.