This quote is really for me. Is this the sign that Ive been asking for?

Don’t let anyone still your happy. Life is to short to not laugh till you have tears in your eyes Every. Single. Day.

It’s hard. But once you do go and get out of that turmoil muck, you see that you are way much better off.

Every relations has it ups and downs.
Keep the ups more than the downs.
If you cant then it is time to move on.

True story but it sucks when it starts out completely happy and amazing and then Slowly starts to change

Yes Ladies…have the courage to dump him and start fresh….it hurts and sometimes like hell BUT the rewards of being liberated are unbelievable once you get over the shock that you really did it finally…go on…you can do it!

U wont be constantly happy too..thats a myth..and unmet expectations in a relationship will only lead to frustration and quiting.

If ppl wanna succeed in relations they must realise that values derived from relations change over time and making effort in relationship and facing challenges is also part of whats making it valuable and successful.

True! If constantly upset hurting and crying then you need to move on … alone … and set your self free

Exactly! That’s why my theory is I’d rather be alone than in a bad relationship. I don’t regret my past I regret not walking away sooner.

The bad thing is when everything was going well and suddendly ego and selfishness plus lack of trust came in the relationship.

Choose happiness! Always!
If your relationship doesn’t make you happy and glad in life..take a call..take charge of your wellbeing..even if that means moving on..

Wether being in a relationship or not if you are hurt or upset due to any reason or person you should leave them rather than being with them and getting more hurt and feeling stupid. Like i did

How true. Sometimes it’s hard to move on when your feelings are true and genuine. But it must be done. And when one gives up cause he selfish. ..Yea kinda hurts…alot

When I was in a relationship with my baby daddy, he CONSTANTLY hurt me. I’m trying to get over him, but it’s so hard, because he’s the father of my youngest son. We spent a lot of time together. I try to get over him by going places or spending money, or talking to people, but it’s not the same.

It ain’t one sided people, not one bit one sided. Abuse takes many forms. Not just abuse from the male and not all physical either. When a person is moving through medical problems and the other side thinks they are just being anti them, well, that is so childish isn’t it? It matters not how much you love the other or care for the other because their clouded vision allows only negativity, no matter how much they love you. So I after 27 years and having attained the age of 67 coincide I being the male will never win. So… Read more »

Same thing happened to me the relationship was great then things changed. He said it was my fault but actually it was his. It’s been a week and it’s over. It’s been a difficult week.

seems simple enough to me… being loyal and dedicated is important but sometimes there just comes a time to abandon ship, swim to shore and start over on a new ship!

I was like that in my last relationship he kept making my upsst and i kept on crying. and he made me jealous alot wn he goes out to his pool matches in pubs saying he’s seen nice looking girls and i’d get really jealous it made me feel sick. but the guy i was seeing after is really nice and a gentleman &lovely. i really do love him but its complicated. but i love him so much

Yes just remember that guy who was so mean to you, using you,disrespecting your truck, calling you names and a whole lot of other things to numerous to mention. Stay away from that one. Your life is different now. You do not deserve that kind of treatment.

Yeah soooo true… And for that we need an understanding person…and not a womanizer … Who’ll go for every gal they meet… I just hate such guys…

No point u still stay in relationship if constantly u’ll getting hurt & hurt all the time..it’s totally SUCKS..u better get move on..Yess..it’s hard to leave the one that u luv but for ur own sake & for ur own happiness..u hv to make a choice there..u deserve better..?

You need both.
No, you shouldn’t always be crying.
But, it happens.
It’s that it doesn’t always happen. It doesn’t always go smooth.
Fights, getting on one another’s nerves.
It will happen.

It’s what you do about it.
It’s that you both are willing to go forth amd brave life together, even when you really don’t like that person in that moment.

So true. I have happy and laughter, however there is a lot of the crying and disrespect. My husband has paranoid schizophrenia and split personality disorder. I love him very much but some days I don’t know how to keep going. This sickness was not chosen. However we have to learn ways to cope sometimes with what we have. It’s like having another full grown child some days and some days like I’m being treated like a child by him.
Trying everyday to find something happy.