Omg I almost ended my life almost four months ago. I broke up with my ex and she will be impossible to replace. But I’ve already received quite a few very tempting offers. Really good offers. My ex did everything i wanted. The only thing she didn’t do was stand up to her parent’s for me. She knows and God knows I’m nothing like her ex husband. Nothing!!!!

Yes lately. Because the one that you really fights for isn’t “The One” worth for. Coward and weak they’re too protective of their own feelings.

Yes, has happened more than once or twice in my life. I just try to work through whatever is bothering me, sometimes even needed to talk it out with a professional. I am not ashamed of the pain that I’ve felt or the scars that I have. I am proud that I have fought and come out on the other side.

Yes. 2 years ago my ex told me that he wanted to separate and eventually divorce. We were married for 3 years but together for 13 years. My heart felt like it was shattered into a million pieces. I finally understood the country songs about heart break and heart ache. It took about a year to get to a point where it didn’t hurt every day. And finally here i am 2 years later…almost divorced and I’m in a better frame of mind. There are days where I miss having someone there for you, the inside jokes, the hugs, the… Read more »

Everyday for over two years we spent so much time together and she never took her eyes or hands off of me. Sex two or three times a day and I still had time to work and provide for her and her two boys. Taught them how to talk and changed diapers. I was the best man she ever had. Almost 4 months and not one single word ,call or messege. Wow !!

It got to a point where I didn’t know what a day without pain and anxiety was like. The mask of “I am fine” no longer hid my anquish and my litany changed from “this will pass” to “I have to end this.” It is a miracle that I had a moment of clarity to seek help. Without that, I don’t think I would be here now to proudly say that my story is FAR from over.

Yes, when my husband passed away. I have never felt so horrible. It was like a big aching hole through my middle. It is still there 11 yrs later but a bit smaller.

I have but life has a way of pulling us through, be it family, friends or just a random thought or feeling. Feel good about yourself and you can get through anything, chin up!!

In John 11:35: “Jesus wept.” Jesus is the son of God but He wept because He felt for those who were suffering like us. But He didn’t stay with the pain or complain about it. He turned to God. When we turn to God, there is a peace and a strength that God’s presence gives. As we all know that we will experience problems in life. However, if we go through them while knowing God, we can react to them with a different perspective and with a strength that is not our own.

Yes i have when my best friend said he found the one and it wasn’t me even though I had expressed how many times how I really felt about him I guess I was hoping that one day God would give me what I prayed for so long and for him to notice me i tell myself that God didn’t let it happened because he knew he wasn’t the one for me but it’s still hurts so I do my best to make myself happy

This is how I currently feel, I got out of a verbally abusive relationship 4 months ago. But it’s not that that is tearing me apart. She took our daughter, slandered mine and my family’s name in court, told them I was crazy They believed her I have aspergers(high functioning autism) . I was her primary caregiver her mom was only a mother when it was convenient for her, lazy 99% of the time. I put that little girl before me every second of the day. Now she has her and I get visitation. I’m not saying this out of… Read more »

I was gonna say the same thing. Physical pain lasts shorter, can be alleviated and masked by medication.

Emotional pain lingers, and can stay with you for years. It might have been over for years already. You might even think everything’s okay, but just one thought, one moment of weakness that you reminisce.. That pain comes back again.

Oh yeah, that twisted stomach feeling that hurts SO bad you want to die? And of course the nausea and vomiting? Good times ?

When words are no longer enough, and embarrassed from the tears from your eyes… feein’ weak for letting those droplets surpassed you… they said “thats the sad thing about pain.. it demands to be felt” but hell for those feelings that you have even wished to be dead… the best thing about pain.. it will never leave you without teaching you a lesson…

In high school. I had a rough time growing up. We moved from one place to another and back bc my dads work. I was the black sheep of the family. My step dad was constantly yelling at me or at my mom and threatening to kick me out, send me to my drunken father who i had not seen since i was 3, or military school. He would take the family and go to the movies or lake and leave me behind bc i was the bad child and didnt clean my room or make good grades. I fought… Read more »

How about when you tell your ex you have Cancer and he leaves you 2 weeks later and tells you he met someone else….you can’t imagine how hurt I was after dating him for a year and a half….

Happy I came across this post I felt alone didn’t really talk to friends and family about it so I just hold the hurt in …. I wish it was a fb room for this topic and those trying to get through it ?

Yes, a lot of times but I won’t let that pain wins me. I’ll gotta fight and never stop believing my dreams. Sometimes we need to experienced those things to be more stronger.

Yup.. sunk into depression when my ex abandoned me n my gal close to a decade ago for a rich old woman when his biz flopped.. kept hearing voices in my head “if somewhere else hurts, ur heart will not hurt this bad”.. started doing lame shit to harm myself.. took me a long long time, but glad im over it now.. ???

yes I have, but what makes it worse is when the person causing it,is so foolish to understand how wrong and miss placed their point of view is and to afraid to face it. Sorry but you may just be better off.

Every single day. And when asked if I’m OK, of course I say yes but can only think, if people only knew the true feelings inside.. ??

Oh, yes. I was ‘ghosted’ by my fiance two years ago this month. It was a pain like I’ve never felt before. I was sick to my stomach, had horrible nightmares and it hurt to breath. I still hurt from it, from not having closure, although it’s a different kind of hurt from when it was so fresh. But even typing this, it brings tears to my eyes. It’s something I won’t soon forget.

Unfortunately yes. Got dumped last weekend by an ex who was emotionally manipulative and draining on me the whole summer. She ran off back with her ex whom she refused to cut contact with. And last weekend happened to be the second anniversary of me getting dumped in a previous relationship by yet another girl. Who lied about being pregnant and getting an abortion (hence dumping me because she “couldn’t take the guilt of facing me”).

So yeah. I’ve had rough times I suppose.

Have you ever felt so happy that it feels good on the inside? Go with that feeling and embrace it. You have the right to be happy and besides, that smile suits you ?