Yeah well I don’t need someone back in my life who figured they could wander away in the first place.. so what ??…. they wander, do whatever and realize the grass is not actually greener so then decide to come back ?????….. pffft…..I don’t friggin think so

If they wander dont bother coming back its that simple

This is true when you both surrender your life in the hands of God, and situations beyond your control separate you. THEN if it is God’s will for you to be together, as friends, coworkers, soulmates, husband and wife, whatever, then God will arrange things for you to be together. But if one of you, of your own free will decide to end the relationship, decide to go away, God will not force you to do what you do not want to do. The person that was left behind should keep her peace and continue with his or her life.

ya if they are back with good news its wonderful…only thing is they back to give more trouble

I definitely quit believing in that! For a lot of reasons…

My husband sent me this…He left 3 yrs ago…Why he wandered in the 1st place is still a concern….Communication, loyalty and Love went out the window….Along with all his deceit and dishonesty….and now is trying to make amends….Lets see how this is going to play out!

They leave don’t bother letting them back into your life, they left you for a reason the first time. Lesson learned the hard way.

Not necessarily, just because they come back does not have to mean they are meant to be in your life. It means they are wishy washy

Well if people have cold harts well then it would be true not to come back but depending on one another decided to do to end there relationship then the statement is true

Why take them back. If it didn’t work the first time how can it work after they’ve self gratified. That in itself speaks loud enough to say goodbye. When one has wandered the damage will always remain. When the wound from that damage has healed up into a scar, then why on Gods earth would you want to open it up again and then rub salt in it just to wash it over in a delusion of desperation and lack of dignity. This is probably the most idiotic statement I have ever heard in my life. Time is precious and… Read more »

I don’t want anyone after they have wandered away. Let them keep going about what ever lead them off in the first place. Who wants to take the chance you’ll go through all that again. Let by gones be bygones .

I guess the operative phrase here is; ‘meant to be in your life’. IF they weren’t meant to be they WOULDN’T come back to you AND you wouldn’t take them back.

Eh. Not true. Why wander away in the first place? I’m just supposed to sit there and hope they come back and then when they do, I’m to accept them with open arms no questions asked?? Nope. U better have an explanation and then maybe I’ll take u back. Who knows, I might have already moved on by the time they came back.??

Not true. A person who is meant to be in your life will never let the distractions of life carry them away from you. They will walk next to you as an equal, taking every step carefully, they will treasure you from the start, and they will never give up or leave or wander.

I’m praying to God this comes true for me. Sixteen year marriage just ended because she fell out of love… Highschool sweethearts and now she’s gone. I’m devastated.?

This thought process is why there are so many failed relationships and single people. I believe once GOD removes you from my life. Deuces. I tried believing this and got hurt a second time. No thanks.

Most men today are commitment phobes… would rather sleep with multiple women and not be exclusive. Social media has ruined relationships

Why would you want them to come back? Why would anyone ever want to be a second option, a backup plan? If I’m not your first choice, I don’t want you. “If you hesitate between me and another person. Don’t choose me.” True love is not that hard. If you have to question it, it’s not love.

The Hell is this nonsense?? If your Wandering its obviously for a reason more important than i am to you. Please dont come back. #GTFO

If you’re really meant to be together why would they leave you alone in the first place???… if they come back again it only means it doesn’t work with the one they replace you with…

It doesn’t work like this…
If the other leaves me there won’t be return even we would be meant to each other… This happened with ex who left mw cause of another woman and if it would happen he would regret his choice it’s definitely too late… I won’t take back him 🙂
All the best for ex in his marriage :-*
All the for me with my beloved <3

Naaah, I’d gladly tell that person to wander back from where they came from, because they shouldn’t have wandered off in the first place.

I believe this, not just with past lovers but with anyone. If they are meant to be in your life then you’ll bump into them again