Sometimes, this is true. Definitely not always. Stop making excuses for yourself. Sometimes, it actually is your fault. Look inward and not always at the faults of others if you want to actually better yourself.

No, he may find you. Then he’ll leave if you don’t understand his needs they’re:
1. To feel accepted
2. To feel admired
3. To feel appreciated
4. To feel approved of
5. To feel trusted.

What a load of rubbish. Maybe if you stop banging on about being a strong women. And talk about feelings emotions and about how the relationship is going to work. However before that pick a nice man .

This post is bull. I’m single because all the men my age want younger trophy wives or they are disabled and unemployed. Being strong for the last 22 years has not attracted anyone my way.

I swear I hate being asked why I’m single. If I knew the answer to that I probably wouldn’t be. In truth, I have no idea. I just know I have yet to meet a decent man who wants to be in a relationship.

Yup..and u get misunderstood that ur a moody ,unhappy person, when they r the ones making u unhappy for their actions…and still dont realize and admit to them instead ur overreacting or blame u for everything … smh
Pfff. !! ” Shake then off “.. lol #single #andfree

It’s a privilege to be single one gets to really enjoy having a true relationship with oneself and not everyone gets that opportunity in there intire life. And once we get to really experience that true feelings of being alone is very hard to just open up to just anyone. And I guess that is one of the reasons why we remain “Single.”

Whenever I hear “I love having to not answer to anyone” or “I love only having to think about myself”, or “My personality and attitude is too strong for most men.”

I laugh so much, wake up and work on yourself. Stop making excuses for yourselves and really take a strong look at your life and ask yourself if you are really happy.

It’s okay not to be “tough” all the time, we are only human. Stop making excuses for yourselves. Men and Women.

So I guess women who beat their men and think they are cheating just for breathing are only strongly opinionated women and when the man leaves, it’s the man’s fault for not being strong enough to handle such an independant woman… gotcha. Down with the patriarchy and all that jazz… >_> smh

He will find you if you are open to being found. Yes,you may have to deal with a lot of jerks, but it is the only way. By the way, the good man who finds you had with women who were jerks, too!

I don’t have attitude problem to be with the man who is worth it to be with me.. If respect and appreciate me just as I am. Is loyal, honest and faithful and I trust him 100% and has a good sense of humor 🙂 I’m strong, independent, loyal and honest woman who say straight my opinons and have principals which I keep… I respect and appreciate everyone as they are.. I have thought many times why I wasn’t ever enough to my ex but when I red this quote I began to realize maybe I was too much to… Read more »

No. You may darn well have an attitude problem. No one needs to ‘handle’ you. You aren’t a wild animal, handle your damn self and your own emotions. If you can’t handle your emotions in public-go be with a teenager, because that’s what you’re acting like. You’re most likely single for a variety of reasons: 1: you believe you ‘deserve’ a nice strong handsome man who’s 6’2, looks like Thor and doesn’t act like a typical man. That’s called unimaginably high standards and you yourself are probably no Aphrodite. 2: you go for men who would not find you attractive… Read more »

Some guy asked me last night “You’re so beautiful, why are you single?” Lol

I told him “Listen guy, I’ve had a husband, and a boyfriend my whole life. Now, I’m just enjoying my life. Now, it’s all about me and it feels wonderful!! Let me get a “Amen” from all the single ladies????

Or you DO have an attitude problem & you’re a bitch. ? Please stop telling women that in order to be a strong woman, you have to be super stubborn & “call them on their bs”. – Advice from someone who used to be that bitch to men & then blame them & calling them weak for leaving my ass.

By encouraging single people to blame others for their singleness you are not helping them change that situation. You can be strong minded and fair and reasonable at the same time and not prevent yourself from finding love.
Some people don’t know the difference between ‘because of’ and ‘in spite of’ and blame their positive qualities for them being single. This mindset does not help them be self aware and grow. The above is great advice however for those who want to remain single forever.

Yeh carry on believing that sh@t that it’s always the Mans fault whilst you likely exhibit behaviour traits which would repel the finest Gentleman out there !!!

Change begins with yourself, far far too easy to continue playing the blame the Man all the time card !!! ????

It’s pretty simple to me- make an effort to get to know someone, see how they treat you. If you feel comfortable with how welcoming, transparent, and reciprocating they are, than trust them more. If early on, they are not reliable, then give them their space, and carry on with your life. Don’t spend precious days chasing them

This may be true or may be a cop out to excuse ladies who keep being attracted to:
weak men
Emotionally unavailable men
Immature men
Lazy men….
There is a saying you can’t make a hoe a wife. You equally cannot transform F boys into viable life candidates.

i’m single because I have not yet found someone whose personality, maturity and values match / compliment mines…. AND the time we spend together is mutually fulfilling (emotionally and intellectually). I am single because I know that accepting less is counterproductive to having the balanced partnership that will add the value to my life and future that i hope to add to my partners life. With maturity comes patience, empathy, respect and integrity. I’ve met guys in their 40s & 50s that are immature, and they are completely perplexed by my standards because desperate women with no standards have been… Read more »

I Call bs. Alot of Women are single specifically because strong, and arrogant are often confused With One another. Its One Thing to have Standards, Its something completely different when you cant come off the high Horse long enough to even Tell the difference between feeling entitled to a Good man…. And DESERVING a good man. Dont confuse *strong minded* With *stuck-up*….Its 2016. We see the ish 5 miles away……

Why does this page seem to be female orientated. Some girls I see are bitches… And I dont see a quote about toxic bitches and how I’m still single because girls are bitches. Talk about equality and then you get this… I think you should make your quotes gender equal so everyone can relate.

Good advice. This is how you stay single forever.. ??

Every break up reveals issues that YOU need to resolve (both Men and Women). And there’s only one common factor. YOU. And that’s all you have control of. The other person, well, you can’t control what they do or they do to you.

Stop making it sound like strong women are “too strong” for men. Unlike most, there are a lot of us men who have a life and love strong independent women.

Who the fuck cares why some one is single or not? Relationships are a huge responsibility and finding the right mate Is not an easy task. Better to be alone and responsible for yourself than to be in an unbalanced, unequal relationship.