Even some people don’t change for the better. You can be hurt a lot, but that doesn’t mean they changed for the better. You need to be specific.

When it is both, the change takes time, but is profound…

In my case, both. One led to the other. Learned through the hurt. So much better off now. Not bitter; just smarter.

Oh. And that not loving myself enough is why I chose to stay and put myself through that. That’s what I’m changing

At this point I have learned a lot and how to feel heartbroken and everything else I just haven’t felt in a relationship and I will break up yet what time will experience but I don’t want it I just want to stay with a girl

Hurt….but the part is that I still forgive and they act like nothing happen

Like this. I am in limbo I guess. Not hurt enough or smart enough to know where to turn next.

Definitely both. But you can change yourself an be happy an love yourself.

Both took a same place in our life but difference is that when we hurt then we learn a lesson and teach that how we live our life.

Sometimes it’s a combination of both…. Through our hurt years we’ve been taught unforgettable lessons –

Both for me. I learned a lot, but the hurt is what sealed it for me.

I would have to say both. The hurt changed me and taught me that I don’t have to stick around for a second time around and walk away before it’s too late.

And some people doesn’t changed even after that cz they don’t want others to be learned or hurt a lot they want others to be happy

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thts true!we are being hurt most by people whom we trust & give them our love!but still its patience work for us all!live from de pain & live the rest of your with happiness

I’ve learned the hard way that people slowly reveal themselves as a reaction to their life circumstances. If they endure it well, keep them. If they keep making the same mistakes over again but see nothing wrong, cut em loose

Oh I learned a lot alright, but I will never let a man break me. The other girl (yes girl) lol can have him, bc he’ll do it to her too.

True…but no one will ever understand y u changed…n will blame you for what u have become now..they will blame you for being an egoistic even if you now just want to save your self respect..Y to care if they do not bother to care or want to understand the reason behind

Hurt actually showed me not to let myself anymore. That’s why now I don’t get attached and don’t expect anything either. I’m not saying I’m heartless but when I see that it’s the real thing then that’s when I’ll be more into things. I won’t let anything or anybody be in control of me. And I will definitely never let anyone treat me like a joke. I’ve never broken up with a guy in my life but those days are over I will definitely be the one to walk away if I ever feel like I’m being hurt.

People teach u lessons which no school can teach u cause the wounds given by people whom u trusted most vll never i say never heal.
Life changes as vll as people also change.
Money and greed overlooks everything.

What I’ve learned is that holding someone for twenty years, then being alone and sleeping alone sucks to say the least. For the first few weeks I’d wake up multiple times a night reaching for her. It’s been a couple months and I still randomly burst out in tears in public places. I’m so ready to be over this part. What I’ve learned is that I won’t put myself out there like that again unless I receive the same love and affection in return. Twenty years of pouring my heart out only left me completely drained and alone.