Relationship Rules
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Not making friends with your ex’s while in a relationship means You Have so much respect for your current relationship. Because the reason why you moved on means from being a strangers you become lovers and after you break up, you become starangers again. I remember when I was a kid, my parents used to tell me ” Don’t talk to strangers”. Since they are strangers for me again. I dont talk with them anymore.
I let a girl go for this very reason.. Wasnt gonna happen as she had a boyfriend but we still hung out so a decision needed to be made.. The search continues lol
Love is not something which is available at whole sale rate for everyone,true love just once with high intensity..otherwise thousands friend can offer you for love dn’t b silly again its just time pass..love is the world best process of growing peace and happy life.
It depends how the relationship ends and it’s better to be mentally prepared for certain changes to occur and try to be as reasonable and understanding towards the other person’s feelings.
Well if you are in love or fell in love with someone they are typically your best friend right???
True friendship can never be destroyed, but love and heartache can obliterate friendship.
The only thing that can heal that pain/friendship is time.
With that time you must have the ability to forgive that person, while letting go of one’s self anguish towards that person
Once you do that … you can absolutely be friends again
You will always have that love inside you but if your choices are to lose them in your life or remain just friends…it’s really depends on the situation. I have 2 people in my life that I was once in a relationship with. It wasn’t meant to be but because I value them and they positively add to my life, I keep them as friends. Once I love a person, I always will. Unless they majorly screw me.
Depends. It certainly makes things more complicated because there can still be feelings there on one or both sides. I think you absolutely can still love someone you were once with even when not together but it just depends on the situation if you can and should remain friends. Sometimes it does more harm than good and sometimes two people can just be friends with no issue. I’ve done both.
Not true, I’m good friends with a few of my exes. We moved on, no longer have feelings for each other, and leave the past where it belongs. Doesn’t mean you can’t be mature and still love each other without being in love. Doesn’t mean an ex lover can transform into a good friend. People change, things don’t work out, but you become close with your ex lover’s friends and family during the time you were together…sometimes the best thing you can do is to remain friends.
I give mad respect to all that have done and still do have a successful friendship with their ex I couldn’t do it I think it lasted a week before I walked away from her completely
Totally agree, that’s why I could never understand exs who choose to remain friends yet have moved on to other relationships. If you’re not friends with your spouse or partner then you’re in the wrong relationship. #SimpleAs
You can, but it is a different kind of friendship. One that aches. But if you truly love them then their happiness is what is most important to you, and it will give you a degree of comfort.
I don’t actually stand by this post….. It actually depends on how u drifted away…. If there’s enough understanding and maturity two people can understand that they were not made to be together as lovers but for sure they can b friends….
Yes! You absolutely can. Just because it didn’t work as lovers doesn’t mean it can’t work as friends. You learn more about each other and you grow.
Yeah ok but when ex’s tried to say I will always be here for you no matter what and I be like where the fuck were you when we were together smfh
I can’t.. both sides of it. I’ve tried going into a relationship with a girl who was friends with an ex. I felt like everything about me was being judged and compared to. I lost so much self esteem and confidence that I turned away. I always felt she was still into him because she spoke to him more then me.
There is a very simple answer to this…
Some people can (I’m one…), and some people can’t (I know a few of those too).
The error here is in believing that all people are the same and trying to pigeonhole them into your own experience.
I was still in love with him and he didn’t have feelings for me anymore but wanted to be friend’s, basicly was just using me so he could carry on seeing my son who he had bonded with, when I asked him how he loose his feelings for me he told me he’d not had feelings for me for 2 and half years of our 3 year relationship, I hit him across the face and called him a bastard, so staying friends doesn’t work as yer just kidding yerself x
No you can’t. If you didn’t make it as lovers what makes you think it’ll work as friends ? All lovers are are “friends on steroids”
Sure I can! I fell in love with him, then we had really bad problems, then I hurt over him, then I hated him, then I accepted him, then I cared for him as only a friend could. People grow and change constantly. They way you feel for someone can change so many times. We can even grow to appreciate people we used to hate. So, why can’t we grow to be friends with someone we used to love?
True… If stay with friends can’t ever really move on and there will always be this little hope deep inside if this still would be more…. You can’t give the whole you to somebody else if you still friends with ex.. I cut ex from my life when he got married and I’m lucky to have my beloved next to me and I’m honestly giving the whole me to him <3
Ex is past and stay there
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I need him in my life… I’d rather have him as a friend than not to have him in my life at all. He’s my best friend . I love him. #UnrequitedLove
I don’t agree. I’m still friends with many of my exes. Even if the relationship didn’t work, there was clearly something about them that I wanted in my life. These people made me feel happy, loved, needed. They make me laugh. They know me. That closeness didn’t end just because the relationship did.
I don’t believe you can. This is a loaded question and depends a lot on how the relationship ended. If they ended it then of course they did not love you the way you loved them. It would be hard to see them move forward and date or marry someone else. So I guess as a defense coping skills would be not to put myself through having to watch them move on with their life. However, if I walked into a store and saw them I would say hi but that would have to be the extent to it. I… Read more »
Doesn’t work.
Never does.
One day those feelings will resurface and you’re screwed. Cut it off and do yourself a favour. Respect yourself more than your need for a gimped relationship with someone you know you can’t have.