She Deserves to be happy and it hurts to let go because I am so broken and blind that it breaks her down. Go find the one who makes you happy because I always loved the way you SMILED!!!

Angie bee I just love what said so true that happen to me and so of you share some very words that very helpful to others hope god bless thanku for sharing you good ideas

That cannot be true a girl’s happiness to a boyfriend or husband is all for happiness there’s no way she cannot be happy without a man she’s crazy I’m sorry but she has to love her man because he treats her well we’ll never heard her make her smile help her out when she cries she has to do the same but there’s no way she can be happy without a man that’s just bull crap seriously come on relationships are positive priority everybody knows that

Why is every where the word “leave” is so highlighted.. The cruel world had finally made leave and love as the synonyms for each other..That’s why every “I love u”sounds like “I will leave u” !

Love has no boundaries, or compromises. If one thinks that that is love, they are mistaken and need to re-evaluate what they are really doing in that relationship. Lying is wrong, and should not be done.
However, promising the world and falling short is not a lie, just a horrible idea for one to hold on to as being a realistic statement.

LOVE is not a happiness.Happiness is in u and it’s up to u that how u get happiness from ur surroundings.love can only feeling of heart it happen not do.when it happen then it’s up to u so how u run it with ur behaviour,respect,honesty,loyalty,truth and ur words and the way of handling ur partner who u love and how much u trust and how much u care and if u truly love so u never see tear in his or her eyes and u never see his or her cry for any reason if the fault of both of… Read more »

Guys like to make promises from one to another..& juz within a minute they will break their promises..I’m not bias..but I state the fact..so better leave them before we will be sorry for a life time..it’s hard to make a decision tho’ but we hv no choice..it’s the best way for us & waiting for the best in the future..hopefully..?

Isn’t that called as selfishness and then the question arises to me if that was really love? True love would never leave for a selfish happiness of one’s own self.

Same applies to some of us men…broken promises and neglect to anyone is like owning a pet and neglecting them attention and love. You slowly break them to where they feel unworthy.

but what if you were the one who make the real promises and was her who couldnt keep her promises. There is couple not individual work, suppose you two are a team, there are not broken promises just not enough effort.

He**….his**. Men aren’t the only ones that sell woof tickets. Women sell them just as good. The sad thing is both men and women are hurting good people and leaving them scarred and scared.

And if she’s the one that breaks the promises? Refuses to work together? Leaves? Where does that leave this fancy little saying?

….and she can only hold on to that love for so long before your anger and hate destroys every piece of it. Be careful of your words and actions – they start by breaking her heart, then they break her, and then they destroy any love she had for him.

Love has to b felt.
It is such a beautiful emotion tht u feel blessed to have this.
Never lie to each other cause lying breaks the trust and once gone can nt b there again

What if she still loves you and still leaves you but you didn’t break any promises. You gave her something she never had in her past and is scared. She walks away to do her right now and focus on herself and her son.

Interesting how sometimes certain quotes come at the perfect time…
It can be hard to make a decision, but if you already question your relationship and think about doing it or not, what the point of waiting if you know what to do. Always do what is the best and healthy for you.

And most women won’t leave easily. Most of us are fighters for true love. But when the same lies and infidelities are a staple in your relationship, it’s time to break free. It takes two FULLY COMMITTED people to make a relationship work.

This is a two way street, if either party is breaking promises over an over again its a fundamental flaw in the relationship. Most of the time this isn’t an easy fix, and it takes a *LOT* of work, even still it can turn out to be the end of your relationship. The important thing is to try, and actually work on it. It builds character and will help you in your future relationships (even if the current/former turned ugly).

Same goes for the male part too. Everybody chooses their happiness first. But when it comes down to love, all the just drunk on the idea of filling the void that they have for years.
People normally doesn’t choose to let go of a person whom they once loved. Cause letting go is never easy. Happiness on the other hand is equally important, but, if the one you love goes away, he or she takes your happiness too. 🙂

What crap. I’m my experience, it’s the woman who has made all the promises, and then walks away. I have only left one woman in my life. All the others walked away.

TRUE unconditional love is when THEIR happiness is essential to your own.
If BOTH individuals in a relationship live by that….then neither is left feeling unhappy or unfulfilled or insignificant.
If only one cares about the others happiness and the effort or care isn’t reciprocated….it’s doomed for failure

Today would be my 16th wedding anniversary. I moved out about a month ago after my wife told me me she was no longer in love with me. I I promised for years to stop being so selfish but my time ran out. It took me moving out and waking up in a strange place to finally realize what I’ve been doing all these years. Now that I’m actually ready to work on myself she wants nothing to do with it. Ladies, sometimes it takes a strong action to make your man aware of the things you’re unhappy about and… Read more »

when you are constantly let down by someone its easier to walk away than fix things but its better to talk and see if that individual is willing to work with you to fix a relationship but if they cant then its better to walk away sometimes its better to be happier than be in a relationship where you feel alone and let down by the person that you mostly care about and want by your side

My marriage of 12 years is in serious trouble. I don’t know how to fix it. I feel like I am falling apart inside but pretending to be fine on the outside. Even our 10 yr old has noticed how dad’s attitude has changed. He stares at his phone nonstop and never let’s it out of his sight. He comes home from work later and later, yet always has a reason. We don’t talk or touch or laugh together like we used to. I have never been so close to someone and felt so lonely at the same time. Sorry,… Read more »