When woman says take it slow without commitment (i’m not talking about marriage/engagement here, simply being in a relationship) most of the times it simply means they don’t want you, but they want your company and keep you as spare tire when things go awry sort of plan B/C/D/E Don’t play hard to get with a man who’s hard to get, for man also wishes that the love of his life takes him seriously. If a girl worth his love and total love, the girl won’t make him wait. I’ve seen love goes bust because of a simple stupid ego… Read more »

Hi August Foreman, from a man perspective tell me more about the persuing initiative in a relationship..your post caught my attention..and I was wondering who do you propose to be the persuer..the male or female? I am curious..hope you respond. TKU.

I hope so I’ve been waiting on this one yo notice me take that second look but it nevered happened i gave my all to the friendship showing how much he means to me but still he nevered notice so yaa with the love of god I hope my next will be the one and notices me for the woman I am what I stand for and my believes except me for the woman I have become so yaaa

Next relationship? I already swore to myself that I’ll never EVER get myself in one again if my previous relationship didnt work out. It’s been fcking 5 months and I still care about him and probably love him, but who am I to say these words right? Once it’s over, it’s totally fcking over. All I can do is to hide whatever I’m feeling and just hope that it wont lead me to my worst, which is the end of me.

Ehhhh there’s no way to know if it’ll last. Just enjoy it, without the crazy expectations of perfection. No such thing anyway.

Amen… I am not in Rush… I am waiting for that person who wants to be with me forever.. But in Reality I can’t for that person 😀 … hey that person.. Please come soon… I can’t wait for you 😉

The lord will give the right person for us. He knows what our heart desires. And i will be patient to wait for the right person to come. I hope it would really be the last person that i will love forever. And i hope that this person will fight for me no matter what happen. AMEN

I seriously thought I had her in my heart till she dug a big hole in my heart, she end up being a very jealous and insecure with me she really thought I was like all ex’s that treated her like crap every time we would go to the store’s or movies she really thought I was staring or lusting other women which I wasn’t I was just being very precious my surroundings but my luck a woman would happen to walk just as she was turning to look at me and she wouldn’t talk to me at all …but… Read more »

Sometimes you have to break a few rules to end up with what your looking for. Most people call that taking chances…but I’m no expert. I’m sure relationship rules were written my women for women – I don’t have a problem with that and I think that might even be a good thing. I haven’t read any of the rules but I can say the younger you are the easier it is to find a lasting relationship. I believe the older you get the range of your acceptability decreases and narrows to a point where almost no one can possible… Read more »

We can’t swear this would be our last cause everything can happen… I thought my past would be my last lifetime husband but after 3 years togethernes he died and I was again alone… Then I met my last ex and I got to realize he is just cheater… 4 years ago I meta man with whom I became friend and a soulmate in a platonic friendship… Now when ex got married 2 weeks ago I realize my true feelings to my friend and now I wish he would be the last man I could live my life at the… Read more »

I seriously thought She have found me but I guess she was not the one. Waited 6 years for someone like her… But she left like a daydream that gave me beautiful nightmares. Although we we’re a once upon a time story. To me she’ll always be one of my favorite memories. I wish you luck in whatever you do. You we’re a blessing that I wish never ended. Although I know I can’t have you or love you the way I want too. I know in my heart I will always love you. I cannot hate you for leaving… Read more »

I’m certainly not in a big hurry about having another relationship. I was in a relationship for 21 years an got divorced. So I’m taking of me now. It’s all in God’s hands I’m not in any hurry no point. Amen!!!!

Starting to think this is all bollocks. 4 failed long terms and 35 years old. Last one changed into an evil bitch and gas lighted me to hell. Dont ever want to go through that again. I have no trust left

I thought I found him… We had everything that both of us had ever dreamed of. One moment changed everything. He’s gone… I will always love him and wish him the best no matter where he goes or what he does… I believe no 2 loves are the same, but I also won’t count on one person being my last love… Because we are not always in control of a path that 2 are walking together.

Being single means you’re strong enough to wait for the right person, so no rushing and put some smile on the face.. Never allow anyone to take away that which they didn’t give you in the first place ” HAPPINESS”

You know not everyone can think like this. SOMEONE has to pursue, SOMEONE has to go out and get after someone they want, SOMEONE has to do SOMETHING here in order for two people to get together . . . all these posts about waiting are just hopelessly idealistic, as much as it would simply be wonderful for them to be true.

This is kind of absurd because, you are not always lucky enough to find a compatible mate so easily and, it can take some time for some of the more disturbing sides of people to present themselves. Commitment is a wonderful thing when it’s with the right person. The luck of the draw is more than rare and being yourself honestly, is how you get there. I keep reading these rules and am less impressed everyday.

God I’m so over it being single, there’s no need to be down this path of o going dating. Sometimes I think the way Indians have prearranged marriages are great idea. You stuck with who you marry, and fall in love afterwards and grow old together!!

Beauty attracts men but wisdom keeps them. Elegance catches men attention but intelligence convinces them. Nagging irritates men but constructive silence weakens them. The ‘boy’ in everyman pumps out occasionally, your ability to handle this, is a woman’s truest maturity. Men have secret struggles and silent pains, should you ever find them out exhibit the greatest maturity. In the long – run your ‘words’ matters more to a man than your ‘looks’, so invest the right words. Earn a man’s respect and he will consider you the yard stick for all his action. Learn to mould the moods of your… Read more »

Amen. I’m in NO RUSH! I’m in God’s hands. In His TIMETABLE! God has it all ordained and pre-destined for my Boaz! ?❤?