Yes BUT if he tells you y’all had a beautiful relationship and you were a great girlfriend then doesn’t that pose the question: Why did you leave?

Most boys and girls grow up selfish, wanting there own way, not getting on with there parents so what can you expect!! They act like children bringing children up, how that works God knows. There’s know wonder that out there there’s not many normal relationships and families ?

So true …. Ever time I started to get my life back on track there he was 3 years I would drop everything for him …. Then one day he texts and says he has found someone else , and he said I think you would like her wtf ??

Agreed!!! I’ve seen the damage something like that can do. Even if the “relationship” is over in the context of the word, you should at least have enough respect to make sure that it is completely over before you start searching else where. And even then, only after some time has passed…

I’m not looking fr a perfect one. but I’m looking for someone who understands me not only my words but rather most of my silence.. :] #singleFall in love with someone who doesn’t make you think love is hard <3

Ha~ this happened to me 2 months ago. We broke up, and he is already in relationship with her colleague 1 week after breaking up. And surprisingly i found out by myself. I could havr slapped him that time!

Selfish people leave you in relationship……n only dat one suffers a lot who really loved his o her partner…!

No! A real man commits rather than change his mind everytime, specially after a long time being together. ?? there’s no such thing as a perfect relationship. Battle together is my opinion.

Agreed! If his wife is full of flaws, you would divorce her BEFORE securing yourself with someone else. Too many times I have heard, “Well she did this or that.” And yet you stayed with her…#SMH

Agree.. But that want my case!! He wasn’t a real man!! Family didn’t bring him up right! Apples don’t fall for from the tree!

Impossible that there is such a real man who will do that in the first place. I doubt there is one in the planet earth. Any regular guy searches for another, a fling or so when he is bored, pissed or have an argument with the girlfriend/wife.

Yes I believe that to be the truth; about most men and women both! For the simple reason that they have gotten very selfish that they would much rather feel safe while they are looking forward to having another relationship, while being in their comfort zone.

The true facts is that no one ever said that it was supposed to last for ever, because nothing last for ever since we go thought different stages in our lives, and learning process and we can’t help it if we fall in love with someone else, and want to start a new relationship between it all we just need to have enough courage to keep up with our lives and move on with our growth in life.

Men and women both! Sad part is because a lot of people have gotten so selfish that they would rather be safe and secure while they look and mess around! We wonder why marriages, relationships, and families are almost extinct these days! We have to start looking in the mirror before it’s too late!! ? and be ??

Yeah I agree… if you cannot hang for the love that it wasn’t there anymore… you should be honest with your partner… it’might be hurt for her side but it was the best for both of you…honesty is all about it also set you free

What always puzzle me is you meet a great person intelligent man when you just feel you fit on so many levels and he is so wise and so educated and then boom someone wears open decolte and he is gone mentally he doesn’t need anymore anything he just like to look at big boobs. Like children really.

Goes both ways! Be faithful even your partner is not around.

And a real woman doesn’t start looking for a new relationship until she’s over her previous one lol…

my ex fiancee ended ours, it hurt alot but everyone told me that I would get through it. Early June, my life was back to before I met her, going out with my friends, smiling, laughing, my mom even heard me once laughing and said, why are you laughing so hard, i was watching a comedy special, she told me, its good to have you back! Then my ex, who after she broke things with me and started seeing someone else in a span of 3 weeks, messaged me. I didn’t pay attention to her but she insisted. Im not… Read more »

Kings and Queens vs. Princes and Princesses. All depends on what you want in life. Do you want a partner, or a dependant? Do you want someone to stand next to you in life, help you build something wonderful, or do you want them to stand behind you, as you do all the work and provide for their lifestyle?
I prefer to have a Queen next to me rather than a Princess behind me.
They have more of themselves invested in our future and don’t have time, energy or desire to start screwing around. They’re busy building a life with YOU!

Sorry but I’m a real man, loyal, honest, I work 2 jobs to provide for my son. I treat my gfs kids like my own. Maybe if women woke up and realized they dated scumbags and bad boys and gave the good guys a chance it wouldnt happen. Hack most you act like your doing a guy a favor by even talking to a good guy. Wake up the blame lies with you. Then you have women that get the good guy but change you stop sex, being affectionate and everything else and wonder why he changes.

? agreed. Even when the relationship doesn’t seem real due to lack of whatever it could be that’s holding the relationship from growing

A real man knows the value of a good woman. Knows how trust her, respects her as a person, and will always choose to be with her no matter what. He will protect her from any harm. As a couple they will be strong and will compliment each other. Together they will survive and will go against all odds.

A Real man doesn’t end the relationship with a good woman. Because with her, he is home. He is home.❤

A real man not flirt other woman look only his lover and take care his lover as a princess…No lies no secret with her..!!!!
Treat her good with all of his heart.!!!!!! ♡♡♡ Woww.

These days most men will already have some hoe lined up even before they officially brake up. Then they don’t want you to know so that you will be a safety net just in case the new relationship fail!