So truth!!! It’s so hard for me to talk when I’m mad!!! I’m have so much pride that if he doesn’t talk to me and don’t talk to him either. I know is wrong, but I can’t help it!!! ??? our relationship it’s horrible. I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to loose him.???

What about when you’re the one talking and still nothing changes. Why bother? That’s when one just get frustrated and being ignoring.

I can asure you, if I had known it was a relationship with me that you were interested in, things would have turned out much differently.

ganire yan ineng,bago mag usap dapat wag mag hesitate na maunang kumulbet ,minsan di n kelangang mag usap,kulbet lng ayos n…..it had worked and still working…promise!!!

“Talk to solve the problem, not for break up”… but maybe you didnt understand that. Anw, “if he want to stay in your life, he will find the way”. 🙂

Exactly only a immature person will not face it and explain their position or feelings; unless they have mental issues and they aren’t telling the other person with is terrible wrong. If you aren’t able to communicate there is no way to have a relationship since that is the base for any peaceful and happy relationship.

for any lady or guys to venture in any relationships cum courtships,there must be comunication btw the both parties for a healthy relationships! I can remember some years back when my twin brother is unable to woo any gal he likes. that inability to talk to a gal u likes is applicable in relations!

Well I try talking to my gf every time. Nothing gets resolved because she gets defensive and turns it all around on me. I’ve been nothing but faithful, attentive, providing, and truly honest with her. I feel like I’m slapped in the face every time she says we should communicate more. Because that’s exactly what I’ve been doing from the beginning. I’m on the verge of just giving up. But I love her so much and don’t want to lose her.

I disagree! If you are Open, there is nothing special about you. If you still holds some part closed, it could create enthusiasm that keep relationship going. Until you open up that part, interest in that person never dies. This is applicable to all situations in life not only relationships. I think my mom still believe, there is something more about her husband than she think he is. That enthusiasm is the key that holds their relation forward. The reason behind most of the break ups is, we are all open each other. And that makes no reason to stay… Read more »

It’s so true. The reason I am not with the person I want to be is because he won’t talk to me. He won’t open up and it’s been hard on me. Relationships are definitely about communication. Without it, your relationship is guaranteed to be doomed. 🙁

That’s so true that goes without saying those rules apply to parents also with no communication you lose so much and gain nothing but dispair so your right be mature and adult like and don’t be afraid to open up remember were all human mistakes are very fixable

Communicating TRUTH is so very important…I only wish it had not taken me so long to find a partner out there who knows this and is willing to do it. All of this. And it is true that it doesn’t have to be hard, people just make it hard because they don’t love themselves, therefore they cannot truly love another, and so many people are out to get “something for nothing” or only do things to benefit themselves. Ridiculousness. It only compounds all of the other problems, and removes the focus from what the relationship is all about~a PARTNERSHIP.

if you can’t… why be there… life is a conversation, what you say and do is how you interact.. lesson one.. life is interactive, learn communications 😉 sorry I cannot help it… if someone becomes so difficult that talking is a problem, one will either stay,, and talk elsewhere,, or go and talk elsewhere,, the choice becomes simpler.. but be thoughtful as to your choices for you self,

Just been going through this this month. It’s awful! I am a broken woman and so sorry for things I said, but my partner doesn’t speak well and it’s been hard for 6 years… Many tears from these eyes, but I will survive..

First of all .. it’s go well when both are equally willing to stay in realtionship.. and if not then there is no space left to communicate or make things clear with each other… its better to step back for keeping and maintaining your self respect…

You can talk tell you’re blue in the face, communicate all you want. If there’s no compromise, the problems will fester and get worse and worse… if you’re talking to a brick wall, what’s the point… save by breath.

You fail to point out that most people in the dating pool are fucked up individuals who have been damaged by previous relationships and will probably bring that dysfunction into anything you try to have with them. Just sayin.

Unfortunately, if you can’t talk to (have a conversation with) just regular people, you are not going to talk in a relationship! It ends up being passive-aggressive behavior based on false expectations!