Very true,my bf says if he txt it means he wants to talk if he dont..then he dont want to be disturb,we are very far from each other and i feel like he is sick talking to me now 🙁 so instead of waiting for him to contact id rather keep myself bz with things and ppl who made me feel that they more want me..but i cant stop hoping at the end of the day going bed alone and still thinking of him..

How about this one where you invest your time into the person and you believe the feeling are mutual and they tell you everything on how they feel then tell you that there ex realize what they had and constantly contact the person being persistent til the point to where she all of a sudden says she’s going back to the person and that’s that no call no check up after saying that you were everything they had wanted but now going back to the person that abuse and cheated on them…

If you are begging for a text or call or quality time than you are stupidly barking up the WRONG tree!

It’s still hard what I’m gonna say, because I bet we won’t last too long which it’s killing me right now because I hate missing my girlfriend a lot of the time and I’m just gonna say is that our relationship between me and Holly it’s going to be so damn hard at the moment because it is hard really when you don’t know what to do by then. It’s look like I have to give up on her but not just now! I really need to think about her feeling first before I can get a new girlfriend at… Read more »

Perfect!!!!
Never beg ,but what about the feeling which drags u down to square one whenever u try n leave them!!!!
Its just not possible.

Sometimes not always TRUE, I went through this when I was going through school… I literally had time for nothing. Even spending a cpl of hrs would’ve put me behind to my career

The way someone treats you is a statement of who they are, not a statement of who you are. Remember we have survived 100% of our worse days, so we are doing GREAT ?❤

U can only spending ur time texting or calling someone if there is something to talk about wit them but when there is noting to talk about u will jus let them be.

i always feel dissapointed wenever i get into a page and people are speaking about love,it hurts me alot having no one to love embrace or call sweetheart.my two year old man having cheated on me with my cousin

Thts true ..but then why not let them live their life .
Why is it neccessary to love someone more than anything and expecting the same from them… not tht we dont deserve love nd attention .. just tht may be they dont have the same share fr us to give ..so why keep hurting yourselves… keep loving yurself ..Thts it 🙂

That’s right, never beg anyone. However, remain kind and show him/her love and compassion, even though he/she might not deserve it. Don’t do it for him/her, do it for yourself. Also as hard as it may seem, let him/her go. He/She might just need some space to figure things out or she might not be interested at all. Whatever the reason is, be the best version of yourself. In time he/she will realize what a great thing he/she had going and he/she might come back. If not, it’s his/her loss really. Whatever the outcome.. in the end, all that kindness,… Read more »

You mean: they’ll make dinner for you, clean the house, make the kids clean their rooms, mow the yard, and then sit with you on the couch while you watch a program in which they’re not even interested…yeah, some people do that.

So done with men who don’t pursue. I’m old school and believe that I’m worthy of a man’s interest. But I’m also an honest woman who will let the man know early on if this is no more than a friendship.

Sad but true…I’m about to give up on someone right now because of it actually…she keeps saying she’s into me but then it’s hard as hell to even spend any time together.

yup… please don’t waste your time on anyone like this. You never get time back during your stay on earth.. it’s yours so use it wisely.

That’s said, but people don’t always admit wanting someone, especially an ex. Pride and ego among other things often get in the way. You can’t get stuck believing one way black and white statements as the way it will be with everyone.

I learned this very recently. despite the words coming from his mouth, his actions spoke very loudly

Amen!! People like this are not worth your time and energy. We all deserve to be with someone who makes us a priority and vice versa. Life is too short for stupid games.

Sometimes we really have to break the walls and if it requires us to go the extra miles as long as it worth it then we should go for it. Sometimes love will never come knocking at our door except we search for it ourselves.

It’s true. If someone like you, they’ll come to you. You don’t need to claim for their attention. I know that, but still insist sometimes.

Never fails:

They always snake back into your bubble once you cut them off. Cool part about it though is the ball’s in your court at that point. Let em in, or keep em out. Your call ?

This quote has missed something I feel that is very important. Instead of reading this and believing this. How about understanding this a little better. Like the term “Love Bomb”. This means that a person will love you and do everything perfect in your eyes and reflect everything perfect to you. Then all the sudden, they drop you like a hot potato. Leaving you to ask yourself why or what you did wrong to deserve it. Don’t be fooled, it is a control tactic. Kinda like how people love someone in the beginning and give them Great Sex for a… Read more »

But sometimes even you know his just playing on your feelings your still there hoping that he will change. But I guess I need to wake up now. I know I can still fine the right guy for me.