Some people become bitter on the inside, some lash out, some just become withdrawn and hateful. It is all down to perception. I rather bottle it inside and get over something I can’t control. That’s the best thing to do. The only thing to do.

Either they are normal or
they may be narsicists or psychopaths.
People don’t breaks hearts and after buying ice cream.

Yes I’m hurting BT I don’t know why I don’t the him fr nt showing up or gave a messg to me we gd BT my c.p.was stolen that’s d end of our communction so confusing.BT up to now I’m waiting

This is fucking stupid because I loved whoever it has been. But I don’t love them for breaking my heart I call BULLSHIT. You can’t love someone for breaking your heart that’s just ridiculous

What a load of bollox. If your don’t hate them for that then you will always choose using lying cheating assholes and serves you right if it keeps happening to you

When my wife left me it broke my heart but now i dont hate or love her the it was. I hate my self for what happen and I take the full responsibility for it. So its not true what you said.

Of course, it’s a nice hearty wishes
BUT
The bigger the love, the bigger the scars.
Uncontrolled emotions, chaotic feelings, mesiry and broken hearts

Dumb dumbest thing ever when you love someone when u love them with your heart and then that person breaks your heart, you break into pieces even your soul breaks and you tend to hate them the most.

Although they did you wrong, you don’t hate them or wish bad on them. This is how you truly heal. Hating them means they still have the power

Not hating someone for breaking your heart isn’t love it’s just plain stupid why would you love someone that broke your heart and treat you like s*** but unfortunately people do it all the time. And keep on letting themselves get hurt

Er.. rubbish. I would close the chapter and move on. Life is too short to occupy my heart with people who don’t deserve a spot. My happiness is important 🙂

I think in almost every relationship your partner will do something to break your heart wether you know about it or not.

No, you should never let someone have that much control. If someone breaks your heart on purpose they don’t deserve your love.

Its good not to hate but allowing someone to break your heart is nothing but stupidity. Stupidity at its finest.
Value your worth. Take care of your heart.

Definitely will never hate you, because I don’t have a heart that can truly hate but please stay away from me. You can’t help who you are and for that I am sorry for you but stay away from me. My life has meaning, even more so now that you’re not involved in it.

How do you stop loving someone who your heart keeps beating for? He hurt me not only once, but three separate times and I’m still wildly in love with him…

You do not love them just because you forgave them. You love yourself when you forgive that person. I was abused in my marriage for most of my 20’s. He doesn’t see his children. He was an awful and pitiful person. I learned to love myself and the lord and to let go of all of that resentment and hatred he instilled inside of me. He left a parasite inside of me but I’ve grown past that and forgave that not for him but for peace for myself. I do not have any kind of love for him. I just… Read more »

WHAT. That is so messed up! One should never love somebody for breaking your heart! That’s not love it’s ABUSE. I understand how people can get sucked back into an abusive relationship because they can be easily manipulated and controlled by the heart breaker. They are put under the manipulators spell and false allusion of a false character. Do not love anybody that constantly hurts you! They are not worth it! But you are! <3

….Or I could just be so over it that I don’t hate him for breaking my heart. I’m just focused on being glad for moving on and loving myself more now.

honestly going through this now..heart isnt broken, just bruised from trying/ thinking this was it! but! super happy they are moving on. with their past and mess they deserve happiness. i know i was the bridge. one day i wont be the stepping stone, but the actual goal..my time is coming..#patience

I completely disagree with this. In fact it’s the opposite. If someone is happier without you, and you truly love them, you should be putting their best interest before your own. Is that hard? Obviously, but you don’t go from loving them to hating them just because you’re not in their life. Thats selfishness.

I will laugh at this and say stupid in the past, but now I have to agree… I feel hurt, I feel pain, I feel sad but never hate… The hardest thing for me to do is to walk away while I still loving him ?

This is the dumbest saying…If you really love someone, thats when it hurts the MOST when they do something that breaks your heart. And you do hate them. You hate them EVEN more!! Its when you don’t love someone that you wouldn’t care if they broke your heart cause you don’t love them anyway. You can still love them and hate them at the same time.