I know nothing about it…my ex together for over 20 divorced for 5 lives with his girlfriend but drives by my house several times a week still…What is that I know nothing…He is a drug addict and that is why he is not longer here ultimatum and he keep the drugs and got a druggie to live with…I know nothing

I disagree … If a man goes way too hard to change a woman. She will run away from him. You, as a man. Can never show WAY TOO MUCH interest for a woman you like. Woman are like cats. Chase them, and you have lost. It has to be in a very slow motion. Like filling a glass of wine. Very slow, and careful. Using the right words, and approach. It shouldn’t take more that a couple of days to get her interested in you.

and what is it when the man is going hard and the lady turns her back on him.

Sometimes you can feel like you’re pestering her and don’t think you’re good enough. Not always true if you assume she wants space. Assumptions can be poison in the dating world.

I would actually prefer a man going gently, easy and slowly on me. Let him first show me how much he does really care about me and my feelings for him if he wants me so much. ??

This statement is just total bullshit. Even though a man is doing everything to keep her smile and make her feel safe, if a woman is a bitch a man can’t do anything about it. So fuck this quote

this is so true i have been lucky enough to have had 3 good men in my life and each one totally pursued me and i did not part with the first two willingly it was life circumstance i am currently married to my third most wonderful man and he really wooed me hard and we are very happy ladies let him capture you

We try as long as the lady makes us feel like there is something worth pursuing… if she’s shoeing no signs of interest then we will go where we can chase

We’ve been married for 9 years, and now I found out that he’s pursuing this girl at work which really hurts me badly plus he had a mistress that I also found out right after I learned about him &her workmate,sad life :’)

This may be true but I’m officially retired. I will never work to keep a woman around again. It very well could be that I never did work very hard to keep my first wife around but I’m not about to change now. I know some of you need a partner but I’m one that does single well. It’s called freedom and I love it. Friends is all I need and then not to many of them. And not to often. I love my alone time.

Ahh that’s what gives that shits guys can’t simply live without a womans touch.But somehow its true,if he ignores you at times then you just mean nothng to him.Why prolong your agony when you can find someone better that deserves you and appreciates with everything you do.

This is somewhat true, but there are times when life has thrown men some curve balls and they may have some personal things to work out. They may not be ignoring you; however, it takes less than 5 minutes to say hey and letting her know you’re thinking about her every now and again!

I’m not sure how much more obviously hard I can go after her, yet she still refuses. She’s been my wife before and has caught the guy she’s with now cheating on her and yet still wants to change HIM for the better. When will she realize that she cannot change him, or anyone for that matter? You can only change yourself. Wake up sweetheart, please?! I still love you more than he ever could. If I didn’t, I wouldn’t care so much about seeing you get your heart ripped out over and over again with that guy. I know… Read more »

Word. I’ll kill for mine and hope she buys me jailhouse soup. If they ain’t willing to fight atleast then you girls ain’t nothing to them. That’s fact

I’m going hard right now more then ever because I now realize that what I had was the best that could happen. But now she doesn’t believe me. I hope she can take me back.

Very right about that I adore my husband for making me his first priority after God an most of all he uplift me in this life I have everything because of him and God. Never let a next man make your woman happy or help her in life you be that person be her friend and her partner

Everyone has different love languages. You have to know each others in order to meet their desires — what makes them secure. Affirmations, quality time, acts of service, physical touch, & gifts

That is true talk but many ladies see it as disturb like you are disturbing them, do to the behaviour of same ladies and to avoid why are you disturbing me so many men are discourage of going hard..

Yeah but he don’t need to lie and say he loves you or.misses you when he don’t. It don’t give him the right to play with our emotions.

Men think women are complicated.. But seriously, how hard is it to send a bunch of flowers to her work place with a note saying how much you love her, effort level 0.01! Or to take her out for a surprise lunch, Plan a DVD night in on sofa with treats and wine and snuggle up watching a romantic comedy, or really push it up a level and cook her a candle lit meal!. All these things are simple to do if a man wanted to do them!. The right woman for you wouldn’t want your money or car, just… Read more »

When you realize that you aren’t it, its the shittiest feeling in the world

who actually try to stay in ur life is the only one u really need ….
it’s just a matter of priorities .who really cares about you will find a way to treat you in a right way …so know ur value and don’t treat someone as a priority while that one treats you as an option …..