I have done all this with my relationship but it cant just work out for me i try to be a best man ever still i still go through disapointments i have lot to say

Don’t forget a lot of patience!!
We are constantly learning from each other. Changes are expected, always hoping for the ones that will make the relationship better and stronger.

They can blame us with every point..but we never gonna blame them coz we already know that women have uncontrolled emotion..yet,still we r the one who will be guilty at the end of the day…sighhh

I fucked this one up. As always, shit we weren’t even dating but still managed to fuck it up but hopefully I learned my lesson guess I won’t know til I try again. Not sure when that’ll happen

I think I managed to fuck mine up beyond repair. It was going really good and then I had a bad day and chose to pick a fight with him for no reason at all and now he won’t even speak to me… I hate not knowing.

This is true…but however, patience is of utmost importance in a relationship remember everyone has his or her weaknesses which maycause irritation to the other party concerned in that relationship, it takes patience to nurture a solid relationship…

I think the worst part of a relationship is when one is so immature and childish that they cannot even sit down and work out something that is bothering them or they hearing something they thought they heard, instead they take it the wrong way storm out and mentally and verbally abuse you. You try and explain yourself they have no part of it and they turn off their phone. I may be wrong, but it is rude, ignorant and having no respect for you at all!! And they want to call that love??

In all honesty i highly doubt ill love anyone unconditionally… If he cheats on me more then once (yes im very forgiving) Im leaving.. if he beats me or makes any violent contact with me Im leaving… Unconditional is a very strong word and is pretty unrealistic, we all have conditions… We want to be respected more often than not, we want loyalty and fidelity.. If those things go missing or void to begin with only a fool would stay….

Sometimes guys get tired of you and quickly find another girl, that’s life right now. That’s the 2016 perspective on relationships, if you can call them that.

It never works when only one person in the relationship is doing all the communicating . After awhile you get tired of staring at a blank face. Then you …. Give…. Up . Sometimes that decision brings more peace, than trying with all of your might to fix things .

Ugh…the grammar. Please, writer, I like your thoughts and appreciate you, but please have a native English speaker proofread before you post.

100% and if you don’t work at it everyday it will just keep getting worse. You need to put in effort every single day and not expect the relationship to be great on its own. Effort makes a relationship work

Some people think Communication is not that much necessary for a relation :/ I mean if you can’t communicate then what is the purpose of being in a relation… they can communicate with other people but for their love ones they don’t have time and they don’t communicate.. :/

Not sure about the dont expect change part, a partnership is about compromise and if the behaviour of one partner or both is a problem then if you love each other and want to be together you should be able to change somethings with in reason.

This is so true, my Hubby and I do this Rules and it works. And I am beyond bless that I will be celebrating our 18yrs wedding anniversary. God Is Good all the time He is good.

Don’t change? Course you have to change, better yourself for your patner as for him do the same. Both change to better the relationship. And it’s a 2 effort people working relationship not one. More actions less words. They are some people that keep saying I will do better and I’ll do this and never do… Sucks.

Men just don’t want this anymore. They want freedom and to be able to screw anyone they want with no responsibility or repercussions. Work?? Why the hell work on something when it’s just easier to move on to another girl. Don’t ya know things are supposed to be perfect with no work or it isn’t “right”?