Not true to all. I guess the one that stays single for a short time is the one who wants to heal the wounds first that’s been created by the past relationship and finding his/her true identity again. That doesnt mean s/he is stuck with the situation forever. There will always be time to heal and a Perfect time to love again. Just keep the FAITH.

Not always, some treat you bad and you have no choice but to break up

WRONG!!! After being in a bad relationship for years, anyone will seem way better than the crap that you were with so why not give yourself a chance to be happy?? That doesn’t not mean you are unfaithful!!

Pshhhh. Wtf? NOT true. I was faithfully married 20 years to a narcissistic cheater. After the 20th year I found out the cheating. Took me about 15 months to recover and then I moved on!! Doesn’t make me the disloyal one. That’s for damn sure. The loyal one finally does get tired of the bs.

I was in an abusive relationship with a crazy controlling manipulative liar and I had to find somebody else just to give myself the strength to leave. And then he tried to pull this shit, oh you cheated on me, you found somebody while we were still together. Guess I’m the asshole, you know even tho he slept with other woman and tried to leave me for his ex twice but she wouldn’t take his ass and he gave me two stds before I finally left… But I’m the shitty one cuz after we broke up I was in a… Read more »

I am in grief right now but let me just comment on this because this is a total bullcrap! My ex bf waited for me to let go so he can continue whatever shit they have with that flirt we’ve always fought about. “Stayed single” my ass. Stayed discreet perhaps. I moved on first because he wasn’t worth it.

Some people need to find themselves first before deciding on a new relationship. Many lack that ambition to work on themselves.

Im loyal but after break up i suck it up n cry for a day n look for another the next day hahhahaha.. why you need to torture your life for a guy who doesnt want you.. move on…. and now im happily married found the guy who makes me smile everyday instead of sticking with an assholes

Can be true…but it’s always healthy and smart to take time after a relationship ends to heal, reflect, and make the necessary changes so your next relationship has a better chance at surviving. I think the key is to find someone who possess the qualities your looking for when you find them…not after you think you can change them. If they Don’t have what your looking for now, keep on lookin…

Love is like a wave, Ups and downs, ebbs and flows like a river. It’s the one thing mankind will never control!.

Not truth at all. Everyone has different comfort levels when dealing with bad relationships and wasted time and effort. It doesn’t make you a bad person to date after a breakup, it makes you a bad person when you judge people like this.

The loyal one is typically the one dragging out the relationship hoping for things to get better. The coward, who then regrets taking the person for granted (after the loyal one realizes they deserve better), is just along for the ride. Either ways this may be the first rule I don’t not agree with. Way too many different scenarios for this to be “truth”.

I disagree. if you do everything in your power to make a relationship work and it doesn’t you can walk away with no regets and ok because you gave it your all. if you hold back and your relationship fails you will always have regrets. so it really all depends on your humility and honesty.

Disagree!
Some people end up finding something so much better.
You could be with someone for years & Find something amazing In short period of time.
You see, We accept the love we think we deserve but someone who really loves you or even likes you a lot Is gonna show you something you never had & That can be right after a break up.

Not necessarily..sometimes u r the only person who was in relation and other was js fooling around..and u end up breaking up deep inside..when u were fighting with ur own family and friends..but still ur partner proves u to be fool and lastly u end up marrying to some one chosed by ur parents..bcz the word love..is not tempting anymore..ol u want from ur life is to move on…where as the other person still remain single..bcz they were single..even when they wre with u.. lol

Yep. It has been 2 years since he left, 7 months since divorce was final. Still unsure how or why. 10 years of marriage and almost 12 years of being together just thrown away. He married the OW last month. I am still cleaning up the mess, and trying to rebuild my life.

Agreed, and the reason why he cheat it’s because he’s in another relationship, I can’t understand why they can cheat on the person they said they love?

I strongly disagree. I come out of a relationship with someone that had been cheating. I have never been cheating ever. And I was the one that got in a relationship a short time after. Why? Because even though I was happy for almost two years someone came, wiped my tears and gave me a kind of love that I’ve never experiensed before.

Disagree! Because the loyal ones get snapped by wonderful people, whilst the cheaters enter meaningless relationships and grow old lonely and ugly lol x

This isn’t true in all situations. My ex was an asshole and mentally abusive and then he was “destroyed” when I left him. I had been unhappy for so long that I was able to move on really quickly and he couldn’t. That doesn’t make me not loyal. It makes me smart and strong enough to leave a man I knew was treating me wrong.

Bull hockey! The loyal one moves on with their life putting the past behind them BY finding a healthier relationship. The “other one” stays single caused they know they screwed up and can’t seem to put their past behind them!

At first I thought I’d agree but after thinking about I don’t always believe it to be true and some ppl have already expressed why. Just because there’s an ” official ” end to a relationship doesn’t mean that it didn’t actually “end” long before that but the loyal person kept trying to keep it together while the dishonest person was still out doing them. Can’t judge every end of a relationship and the ppl in it the same we all walk our own paths.

You know… I usually agree with most of the posts this page has, but not this one. People heal at different rates. One might heal quicker because they’ve already accepted their flaws and have been working on it earlier on. And there is nothing wrong with healing quicker than the other person. if something better falls into their lap post breakup, then that doesn’t mean they haven’t been “loyal.” Sometimes the other person hasn’t moved on because they haven’t accepted their faults and are still dealing with figuring out their life. Again, this has nothing to do with loyalty during… Read more »

Very true. If you have truly been emotionaly involved with someone it feels impossible to just move on straight away. Every relationship has its ups and downs.

I was the loyal one but was in a new relationship first because I knew I deserved better. Didn’t need to waste any more of my time on someone that didn’t want me anymore.