Very true. Thats the real strength. Physical pain can be healed but mental pain will always stay. Its us who has to keep consoling n get out of it. ?

The fuck, this pain feels only feels iam strong that comes to me???

It doesn’t change anything to show what you really feel

It takes a strong person to look at their pain and stop pretending.

True, That is what I doing everday.. so much pain but still pretend that I am happy

Often it’s better that you not let what you go through wear on you. You never know who you may help by just simply wearing a smile in spite of what you may be enduring.

yes rr….but why to pretend….if m not happy….i just cannot pretend…. there is no meter to judge your strongness… i knw i am strong…. !!

No, it means you don’t deal with your true emotions.

To many years I lived this life, until I learned to love myself. The great cure I could find in life.

Yes, but at the same time it takes a brave person to show when they are vulnerable.

What makes you stronger is not living the lie and bearing your soul. That’s bravery and strength that you trust

Pass is on.. and just move on..

This does show how strong you are as an individual in a way–I used to fake happiness so that others didn’t see the pain hidden beneath the facade; yet, it is just if not more brave to face your pain and confront it, even if others can see it. We shouldn’t discourage it. Pain is what makes us human and it’s what brings us closer to others.

Don’t pretend to be happy when in pain, just live above it.

For the sake of the people around you. Because if they see you sad they feel sad and everyone is sad. Pretend to be happy and everyone around you will be happy

It’s up to you whether you would like to be seen like that as long as you’re happy also to what are you doing happiness is what you decide for your self not with others….

I have a real problem with building walls around the unnecessary… Empathetic is my middle name and I know no known cure… Not going to cry over it

Some really dont know what its like to not be able to see or spend quality time with somebody you love. To not wake up or sleep next to them. To not be held at night. To miss him daily. To be inseparable one min and then gone the next. To not be able to have coffee breakfast lunch or dinner with him. To not just lay together at night and laugh. To not make love completely naked with him. And sleep naked together.#jordanholmes. And to dream of a future with him .

If you want to be happy even your life is turned upside down now, I recommend you to follow the good example of the Apostle Paul.

This is not true and this message needs to stop being spread. People hide their pain because they are ashamed of it. And too many people end up breaking down behind closed doors, suffering in silence, and even become suicidal because they choose to pretend to be happy instead of letting their pain show. “I’m okay” is the #1 lie ever told. People need to realize that it’s “okay” to Not be okay sometimes. And most would be surprised to see the support they would get from others if they would just admit their not okay. Many people lose their… Read more »

Accepting you are in pain is the real power… not to pretend you are happy. To accept your vulnerability means to be powerful. A weak person can not do this.

It’s an example how you fix your problem. Pretending there is no problem. You don’t even try to discuss with your partner. And misunderstanding happens. And you blame them.

Yes that is the thuth. I aways though what is the used in pretending that I am happy when in reality I feel like shit. So I am learning to be realistic and if I can be happy I will show because I am not going to lie to myself anymore.