I really wish I realized this sooner. Ok… actually I did. I never gave a second chance with anyone , but him. Now I know I shouldn’t have..

Shid that ain’t true. My mom & stepdad is the perfect example of this.

Not sure how I feel
About this….it has merit for sure but it’s up to the two parties involved to decide.

Wow, I been trying to get my kids mom (wife) to come back home for almost a year now. Then I read this, man.

Well if its not going well and the person is not good for you you would rather like they leave

What if they come back and never leave again?

Exaaaactly! You didn’t realize what you had the first time around? Sorry for ya ✌?️

Omg yes! Once, maybe a mistake, stupidity, immaturity, whatever, but twice….it’s a decision.

Sometimes you have to leave to come back stronger… Stepping outside of the box helps.

It hurts leaving the women that you are in love with but know that you two aren’t healthy for each other

I disagree timing not always perfect people maybe selfish and not ready do really dumb mistakes and come back and actually change

This is true. But I agree with Connie, people do make mistakes. Not everyone is on the same level of maturity.

Stay single!..Sure when two people get together everything including sex is great but just like everything else it’s becomes a complete wreck an you curse day you first seen them!….:-)…Stay single

You deserve someone who doesn’t just spend the night, but spends the morning with you.

Some times words that people don’t mean are said words telling some one to leave and not meaning them but confusing the other party on what you want while all they want is to make you happy

Yep…made that mistake. Thought it was the fair thing to do giving someone a second chance…what she never anticipated…was the man who did no wrong by her from day one…was highly unlikely to be any different the next time…so decided relationship rules seemed better to read than listening to a text that never really seemed to say anything…as it was just a screen behind a voice I no longer knew…so check ya hun…apparently that next special lady is doing situps right now and she sounds awesome

Correction we all deserve that someone who takes the time and effort to build a strong foundation before trying to get into your pants or knickers.

But if you keep letting them come back when they feel like it they will keep doing it and you will only ever be an option to them. You deserve better it may be hard but end it and you will get over it and there will be someone out there that will be there for you 100% not just part time when it suits them

The man I married I dated in high school. We broke up, he went into the marines, we didn’t speak for a little while and then we reconnected when the time was right. We both had to date other people, learn and grow. Not everyone’s story is the same nor should it be.

i have a problem of the memories,the dreams,and the questions that just cant be answered….ive been there for 3months now…

If the person returns back Coz your meant to be then I guess you have accept it for the person being in ur life again due to the person explaining why it was meant to be

What if the reason they leave is you? Let’s not be one sided now! Nobody is perfect. We all have our flaws and pretending that somebody leaves for “no reason” is ridiculous.

Don’t underestimate your potential baby…you’ve got alot more than what you know…you are one of a kind…you deserve someone who treats you right, who always take time out of there schedule to check whether you doing fine or not, you deserve someone who is equally participative in the relationship as you are and most importantly you deserve someone who loves you unconditionally not when conditions are right for them.

This is absurdly ridiculous. The right person is the right person, and yet there are time when the time is not right. You can try all you want with THE Right one and if the timing isn’t right then it will not work. Then there are times when the situation is beyond your control. Love is love and when it is right it is truly all in the timing. The suckiest thing ever is meeting the right person at the wrong time, but rest assured if they are the right one, when that time is right, they will be there,… Read more »

True. But sometimes people leave to grow and prepare oneself to the person they left. Growing is sometimes going into the wild, unattached to the person whom the one loves. #justathought