Being broke and fighting to make your way in this world, doesnt always mean you want to sponge off ppl. Not all broke single ladies are leeches

It’s usually the insecure men living beyond their means without a steady income that worries about this

Lmfao sureee … my last girl had all that and she drained my pockets and was just getting hers bigger

but why wont she buy dinner, pay for dates? That falls on the man. Thats the reason men should make more. We cover dating, entertainment, dinners, trips, car maintenance. amongst other things

Not every women has a job or fancy dancy car. some don’t even drive some live in houses and others in flats which they would consider a dumb. The point is the same regardless what most men and women want is loyalty good ol fashion charm some sarcasm and clever wit some twisted sense of humor and others just humorous

Or maybe WE can finance OURselves when we go out. We can buy a house. I can cook lunch, you can bbq dinner for us and our friends. We split the groceries and bills. I want your loyalty honesty and OUR money. What’s with all the separation? Money is money. Your money, my money, his money, her money… It’s just paper

I knew a gal w/ 3 jobs,lived in her sisters basement,had zero assets,bad credit,was constantly broke,& would ask if she could have dinner at my place because she had no food in the house……3 jobs and totally broke.

She can get own job and car. Pay some of the bills. Everyone has the right to do for themselves that is what we call Freedom. Anything done together can be spilt 50/50. Or the understanding of Loyalty, Communication, Compassion, and Trust come together.

Never support someone else- male or female. You are asking for a lifetime of issues and bad feelings. Everyone should be able to take care of themselves before thinking about being in a relationship. I’m

But, obviously, I need James for the constant advice, on subjects such as, making coffee (I am a trained Barista!), washing up grill pans, loading the dishwasher, driving. And other things that I have never been able to do, without him telling me how! ?

I still have money coming in…it’s called social security…but I still want to work….just gotta find the right job!

She can still use you, be desperate for attention be lonely, or whatnot. It also doesn’t mean that he won’t mooch off of her even if he has his own job. While one sees potential, the other tends to see what benefit you offer until they find something that seem like it may offer more fitting benefits. I do not have a job, a vehicle(by choice), or bills. I am only interested in loyalty. He can be rich or poor. My ex struggled to pay bills and lived in a home of his parents’. I would’ve been homeless with him… Read more »

She can finance herself but that doesn’t mean he can be a mouch.. He has to be able to support himself as well.. I’m not a bank.

I have this on my bulletin board at work and I had it on my refrigerator when I had a housemate and I found out that loyalty wasn’t in his DNA!

What’s the point of having him around if he doesn’t bring crap to the table shit better off just having a friend lol

It all begins with the type of person you are and how your character is. Being able to so things for yourself is great, helping someone is ok also. But togetherness is a great thing. Both parties I feel should do for each other. God bless.

And why if she encountered a poor guy and without evrything and only that he had is to protect her at all tym..do you think you can accept him…

Hmmm, says every girl until the check comes…. Lol…. But seriously nothing better then an independent woman that doesn’t need a man to take care of her but doesn’t mind if he chooses to

Truth. Personally, I have a bright future. I’m sure by now my love knows I don’t want his money. I love him for who he is. I know he doesn’t need mine. The truth is I’d do anything for him. My money is his. I love him unconditionally! We will share. We will love. We will have a good life???. We’ve got love?. What else do you need? Loyalty ✔️Love ✔️ Trust✔️?

As long as you split every expense 50/50. Equals for life! Lol. Labor too. Get out there and do yard work with your man. Split chores, not along gender lines. Everyone pull your fair share of the weight. No manipulation, no laziness. You’re both humans. Be humans together.

The moment when you write something and then delete the whole thing because you realize it doesn’t matter what you say.

I think the point of this quote is to let yourself know that one’s self worth and contentment doesn’t rely on a person’s finances, but rather the QUALITIES, morals, values a new person can bring into a relationship! Money comes and goes!

She’s got a her own job, her own place, and she does the best she can always. I give her all I can anyways. I’m so loyal it usually just ends up getting taken for granted. It’s with reckless abandon that I do for the women I really want. I could get hurt over and over, but it’s them I want. So, #whateverittakes until I come across someone that brings their true game to me. Then I can be happy finally and say that I never gave up, I always gave it my all, she was worth all my previous… Read more »

But don’t be a cheapskate either. A Starbucks or some flowers once in a while are always nice too. And yes…it goes both ways.