I waited for him to come back…still waiting 7 months later. I try to connect again and again, but it just doesn’t seem like it’s working. I’m not sure what went wrong. I can’t seem to pick the pieces up again.

Well actually you can it’s called free will, it’s not your fault if someone falls in love with you and you don’t feel the same, that’s called control. If you want a long term thing make sure the other person does too. Hateful comments in 3…2…

I was in this situation. It it aches me so much. The only idea I hava in my mind that time is that he love me more any one in this world. That our relatioship will give an example to the worls most especially being in a long distance relationship but everything turns into its opposite idea. When giving back all my time, effort, love, promises—now was just a waste. No one can ever force that. It will always be in my system when you are already really go for that man he will leave you hanging.

People do it all the time… so I guess people can come into your life and then walk away as they entered! Easy come, easy go!

Sure you can if they are abusive, unwilling to commit to you or show you grace and forgiveness. If not, then it’s not a truly loving relationship and time to go.

I know the feeling. I’ve been 3 months crying over her. Having dreams and can feel her hand in mine. She was a sociopath personality disorder.

Oh, yes they can. It’s tough shit, but that’s what you should expect to come out of it all if you get into a relationship with an asshole.

Yes it is true when they make you feel special they then go away and tell you they have found the right one, but these people are users.

Agreed. You cannot JUST leave…because you are now in their heart. You’ve made a difference. You made an impression. You made them feeeel good. That produces chemical reactions in the body. When you leave in this physical world…there is loss from this on the physical plane. But additionally in the heart there is always this residence of you and simultaneously a tearing away. So you cannot JUST LEAVE. You leave and scar…repeatedly… until the scar is no longer tender. And who knows how long that will be. It is different for each individual. Each person heals a little differently. And… Read more »

My soon to be ex husband of 12 years didn’t care. He’s been fucking his 3 ex girlfriends for at least 2 1/2 years, while I have been chronically ill. He said marriage vows don’t mean anything to him. He is so mean and nasty to me now. I don’t what I did other than getting sick to have him be so nasty to me. If he didn’t believe in marriage, then why the fuck did we get married? I want the last 12 years of my life back, damn it!

If you allow someone else to make you feel special, they will ALWAYS leave and “break” your heart. Make YOURSELF KNOW you’re special, then when they leave, you’ll only be grateful for the happy times you had and enjoy the new happy times coming to you!!!!

It has always a reason y a person leaves,whatever that reason maybe,be thankful coz if its true love then the feelings would never fade….don’t get stuck on a wrong person thinking he’s the one bcoz he makes u feel special,remember its easy to fall in love but soooO hard to stay inlove????

That’s exactly what the last guy I dated did… People are so fast to walk away nowadays… They find something good but think good is not good enough and go to look for something better.. I hope they find it, and I also hope that one day we find someone who “good” will be more than good enough for.

Unfortunately the sad fact of society is this does happen. No matter if we like it or not. It just depends on the morals you were raised with. It shouldn’t happen yet it does. If we want the world to change then we ourselves must change how we teach the next generation.

Nope you can’t! But ppl do! My sleazy ass ex did.. Known him 14yrs. Dated on and off BUT for almost a year we finally “committed” to making it happen. And pfft HS just n leaves, cuts off all communication and I still don’t know why or what happened.. Least u got a good man now!

Yes you can lol…. not everyone is meant to stay.. some are like seasons.. they were lessons for your growth … its best to just allow the flow

Those ppl is sh!t trash! They don’t know what the meaning of love is. You deserve much better than them. F*ck them! Just move on. If you can love the wrong person that much. Imagine how much you can love the right one.

I’m no runner, and my love knows we will handle any and all obstacles that come our way. We’ve battled it all. We have true L❤️VE- loyalty is all WE know and agree on ?❌⭕️?❤️

Exactly…just cause times get hard…if you made promises. . You should be adult enough to keep them . You should never walk away from genuine love. That love is very rare these days. People should respect their relationships…now a days. .they don’t. Sad

My heart goes out to all of us suffering from this. Suffering from this is the hardest thing I’ve dealt with. I still cry, I still ask myself why, I still see the last text “Just wanted to thank you for being so good to me before I forget” I still can’t fathom how someone could hurt me in a way I’d never hurt them. It’s cruel. I promised myself not to allow my pain to change who I am or how I love but to be very cautious.

Before coming into someone’s life, make sure you’re ready to love them with all your heart,mind,body & soul.
Care for them,respect them,trust them,forgive their mistakes,support them and stand by them till the end.
If not;
Don’t fall in love with them,let them be.
Loving someone is not a year contact but lifetime.

It’s ok if the other person wants to leave, but at lest consider the other person feelings and tell him/her how do you feel about all the situation. Be honest and truthful instead of just leaving like a chicken..

So very true. ..Doing or acting that way tells me that You don’t have consideration for my feelings nor care about my Heart…Stay True to yourself and to the person and the Words you tell them. ..Amen

People who want relationship dont get them.. the people who are in them dont respect them and everyone get jaded in between. Sucks.. im the one that get people together.. but i can get the girl rarely but cant keep them so wierd. But they go to the next guy who treats them like crap. Its intresting.. maybe im missing something or need the jerk approach lol.. but im not changing momma raised me . right. I may not have much but i got heart.