Settle that’s the right thing to do

Sometimes you’re left waiting because you aren’t trying. A relationship isn’t as natural as people like to believe. Just like bread isn’t natural, neither is effort.

Ach ☺️?
How much I love to read this
When I’m sad and to see that here
Makes me smile ?

Its sucks but its definitely better than being with the wrong person

No, i differ. You do have a partner for whom time is the pre requisite? You will certainly get the partner. TRY TRY & TRY!!

You will know the right person when they come along being single is not the worst thing in the world and life goes on

I would rather wait than settle, like I had considered.

But you did, because nobody’s better than us.

True story: after months of building up the courage, i finally told my third crush how I felt about her and she said she was flattered. and I thought to myself: “alright maybe I might actually have a chance this time! :D” but it turns out that she has a girlfriend and they’re perfect for each other… Oh irony, you we’re there when I was born and I have a great feeling you will be there when I die… I will never find my true happiness…

Further more, dont settle just because your family already know the plan, if something’s not right, it is. People dont change just because their status change from singke to married. Better now than later.

I know someone. She chose the one who hurt her many times, her only reason is she got no other choice. Because she is not getting any younger and in rush to have a baby. Regardless of that man did to her. Stupid isn’t it?

The best relationship are ones that are completely unexpected. Where one minute you’re ordering coffee, and you turn around and make eye contact with a complete stranger, but within that locked gaze and stare you feel their mind, their heart, their soul penetrating yours. You feel this unbelievably strong connection with someone that you don’t even know their name. More often then not we “wait” for something to happen, we try and anticipate it, when instead we should just be living naturally – and it is then, when we least expect it, life provides us with a significant other that… Read more »

Exactly! When I was looking, I found, but not the right one. I got taken for granted, ignored and treated as an option. So, I gave up and stopped looking. Unexpectedly, the one came into my life and not only for me, but my teenage son. It’s amazing. We are happy

Ditch anyone that is toxic be it a mate or person. They are insecure and want to drag you down. Your worth and success is more than a settle for anyone because your tired of waiting. The right person will treat you with respect . Even when each others ideals are different. We all must love one another as Jesus loved us. And remember Gods love is pure and color blind and unconditional. Should we not strive to follow Jesus example. Anyway I love because Jesus loved. And I’m single and happy. I know and believe my mate will some… Read more »

Don’t settle for second best, ever

Don’t settle just bcos you’re tired of waiting!! So true..

Nothing worse than being taken for granted! You can give & give & give, hell, she might even tell you she loves you…but, there is a difference between loving you & loving the things you do for her. Stop doing all those things & see if she feels the same about you, if not..she never really loved you!!

That’s right, take your time and don’t act so thirsty because you will get played!

Settling can cause years of turmoil ! Wait till HE takes your breath away… Wh n you feel soulful connection then you know. Don’t rebound, don’t fuck right away, do the right thing. Love takes time. Be patient.

Some people dwell on this “NOT” settling crap and use it as a reason to break off a relationship! Maybe they should do some soul searching leaving others alone until they know what it is their selfish tush NEEDs and not wants in a relationship

I would rather be single the rest of my life than to be with the wrong man again! Besides, cats don’t talk back!

YESSS!!!!!! Amen and AMEN again! There are too many people who are insecure in themselves and think they’ll find security in a relationship. The truth is, a relationship will NOT solve your insecurity issues. It would more likely make you even more insecure! Learn who you are first. Learn to love and accept who you are unapologetically! Because if you make a decision to enter into a romantic relationship out of desperation, keep this in mind – desperate decisions lead to dire consequences!