Guilty…I just believe in doing things in a better perspective. I guess it has a lot to do with the way I was raised. That’s just the way god made me. God bless all

Absolutely correct that’s why I’m so glad God is my judge man looks at the inward but He looks at the heart, Amen !

And if she can’t forgive

People mistaken you because your nice and think they can get away with anything sorry there is a limit that you cannot crosss.

Absolutely, I forgive and forgive, yet to have someone else do it again to me, because I think that they won’t do it to me, but then they do…

Well, that’s “one” way ta look at it..I was thinking more along the lines of “fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me!!”

Jesus is the Lamb, the softest in heart and fullest in love.

I still say they are cruel to themselves and, sadly, a bit of a fool because when they are busy looking after everyone else, who will look after them?

I thought he had a beautiful heart. 🙁

Yeah that describes me perfectly, I’m soft and kind hearted. So you can do or say whatever you want. I’m still going to forgive you and that includes my family and friends. We can’t hate someone and hold a grudge against them just because they’ve hurt you because we all make mistakes. Sure we are different and unique but we are still human. So go on make all the mistakes you want just make sure you apologize after you do them. And for those that have been hurt learn to forgive even if your best friend or a loved one.… Read more »

True, but at some point you gotta stop letting others take you for granted and cut them off completely.

forgiveness is easy helps in the moving forward process. Doesn’t mean take them back. I can forgive but I don’t forget and sure as hell won’t ever be the same js leave at least being cordial I got no time for hatred

What makes these people more special is that they forgive those who don’t deserve their forgiveness.

yeah and this is the reason why i am always unlucky. because i have a “beautiful heart”. i’m really tired of this

All d time.. and the strength to move on was all from God who most of the time is the bear witness of everything they did to u… God’s love is eternal and his promise is forever♥

My heart is waiting for the same soft heart as mine is, to cross my path.

I was told tonight that my kindness is nothing but a guilt trip and that by forgiving a wrong done to me, I am playing a victim. My heart is soft because it has been bruised by a hard one.

Only forgive so much then that beautiful heart turns cold. So be careful not to ask too much

You see also women are like elephants not as being fat but as never forgetting which is very sad as well. Women tend to keep things from many years held back then one day that one messed up day bring it back up in your face like it was yesterday. To me this is a problem because it should of been resolved and never done again or at that point say good bye don’t wait and hold it until you want to burst and then use it as a weapon to make changes in the program.

im soft and kind hearted but I know when I’m being played for a fool. Cheaters are never forgiven and liars are never believed. Its a learning curve. Cheat lie or freeloaders once shame on you do it again then it’s shame on me…hence there’s only a first time.

Yeah, but sometime you feel like such a schnook. I’ve been known to forgive people six or seven times…then I give up on them. I like to think of it as Self Preservation.

Soft hearted people r gentle. They know how to do love properly. They wanna to live with there relation. They have a great virtue that’s forgiveness. Savage person couldn’t understand that…..

And this is why as well those with a soft heart always gets walked all over because the other person thinks they are getting away with something all the time and the soft heart one never says a word about it because they really know what is going on but never speaks upon the wrong the other is doing. ?

What is very sad is that those who really have a soft heart are the ones who get stepped on like a spider on the floor but yet they still stay the same way soft and kind hearted to even the next