This is so challenging coz I still talk to my ex in a very friendly-zoned way but no string attached and no feeling whatsoever.What caused our breakup will never ever entertain any other feeling except a ”hi-hi” type of ”palship”….

Ugh I mean how many times does it take?! Cheated n left so many times., I’ve taken him back multiple times all to have it happen again.. I met him at 20 & am 38 now.. And the absolute worst part is that I feel I’m damaged and honestly feel every guy is the same.. Gonna do the same.. So I keep everyone at a distance .. Except him.. Fml maybe I need therapy.. But reading some of ur comments is refreshing.. I mean I’m not the only one who took someone back.. 🙁

Ha Ha they only love you if you look like a model and have lots of money because too many shallow people.

Yeah so true, as the saying goes “when luv finds a fool..”. Love is something u cant understand it anyway

Love is BLIND until you get to know that person and I am living prove of that I thought it was love until I found out his secret

Someone broke mine….and i still felt love for them but realized someone that loved me the same…..wouldn’t do that…more than once…..move on

Yes it can completely mean they are over you and healed. Being rude, showing anger means you’re just immature

I agree with this. If you truly love a person you find a way to forgive and trust again.

Circumstances separated us, We were both heartbroken. We went our separate ways & got on with our lives…Now after nearly 40 years apart, by chance we met up again…. It come like we have never been apart..the love is just as strong as when we first met.

Oh did my heart get broken? Shit was torn! And I still continue to talk to him! #crazy I know but I did really love him…Still do. #ItsOverNow?

Yes respect is still there…but excitement?he doesnt have any for me…i still love him…but he dont want me back

I never ever break anyone heart !! But im the one who always never successfull by love !! But im still smile everyday becuase im still beliving in truelove !!

But they lack any sort of self-respect. You may love someone, but once they betray you they need to get out of your life asap.

Not necessarily!! It can mean that you are mature, have healed & you show respect no matter what the situation was that caused the breakup. Being rude & disrespectful just shows your immaturity & unhealed heart. ✌️

That’s not love its manipulation , in a vain attempt to avoid judgement and condemnation from those close enough to know truth from the bs that spews from their mouth. Real love avoids at all costs hurting another before it even happens or when temptation presents itself. Being sorry afterwards is a pitiful attempt to back step from all the hurt that the selfish heap on others and themselves. Allowing yourself to be drawn back in to an abusive relationship , just because the Abuser promises (“So Sorry and it’ll never happen again”) is just more lies and manipulation. Real… Read more »

Or they could be a narcissist or psychopath with no emotions unless it serves their purpose. I guess it depends on if they told you they were upset or not and then decided to be descent. But still not always a good deal! That’s when I’m cautious a bit! Disappointment or mistakes and broken, mistreated, etc are different scenarios too!

No doubts, you care, but maybe the other person doesnt it, but keep the love in for you only and do not let root of bitterness find space in your heart ?

But hopefully they aren’t stupid enough to allow you to break their heart again. Its hard to be heartbroken and still love that person so best bet is to pick yourself up and walk away for good. It’s ok to love someone from afar.

I love him and stayed with him although he kept breaking my heart. I stayed until I couldn’t take the pain anymore. Sad part…I still love him. I miss him dearly. But I won’t go back. I guess that’s where the coined phrase comes from “When love finds a fool”..

Its real….. can’t forget that type of personality
Broken heart loves the same person who broke her heart means what’s the reason behind it?

Don’t break someone’s heart as a test. If you hurt the one you love and they forgive you that is love. If you hurt the one you love over and over again that is abuse.

It’s nice to have someone who fills that place about you that is needed, It turns your life around completely, and gives it a brand new meaning. To that extent also, a reason to keep on, where you thought it would stop. I believe someone can be saved by one they love, and the other also. That’s why God created male and female. He knew the answer to all things…!

My heart is shattered . He broke my heart when he cheated with a co worker then left me for her it’s only been a little over a month . We was together 13 yrs . . I’m so lost I feel like my soul will never heal.. I still love and miss him so much 🙁 won’t talk to me at all and has blocked me completely from his life. It hurts so bad .

No. A careless comment broke me into pieces. So I let go. Because if you loved me, you never would have made me feel so small. So beneath you.

That’s true but when you stay in the relationship and they do it repeatedly you decide there isn’t true love for you. Then you walk away and give up on trying again. Don’t stay in the relationship until you feel this way.