such a shame that so many men put their money and wealth first, and their family last, and everything else inbetween…………

Not much a man can do in this day and age if the wife forces him to leave the home and will not allow him to properly correct the children! Then the home falls on how the wife makes it….Now if you will excuse me I have to go decide witch restroom I should be using today so I can catch up on the news of those three nucular power plants that sprung leaks..

That is only if his wife is a good wife.. Too many times women bash their men & in front of the kids. Not good.

If he deliberately has no money.
.and provides no money and refuses to.acknowledge the issues of money, them there is no relationship of any kind

i love you papa! i so miss you! you’ve sacrifice a lot for us so we will have a good life. if only i can trade my years of existence just to extend yours.. you are always in my thoughts.. i so so so miss you!

When Your wife and kids don’t think much about you, now that’s a damn shame. And that happens for a reason not just out of the blue. Unfortunately we got these boys out here trying to impress others and themselves instead of taking care of their home. Letting their sons be raised by a women. But let’s face it, we can do it just as well or even better than any man out there.

At the end of the day / its really what matters/ but money and accomplishments are necessary and are the cement / lack of savings/ and an agravating mortgage / a good education for your children may not be possible / you can’t have one without the other/?

So how does that work when the man trys his very best every day and its never enough and always made to feel unwanted unloved to the point where he has to just stop and is then accused of all kinds of lies in order for the wife to screw him for as much money as she can

This also applies to women. And for all you people who think that a person should not work to provide a better life for your child and family should look into their past or future.

I’ve seen some good men treated like shit by women too! It wouldn’t matter what they did to please.. I am lucky enough to have married an amazing man and lived a loving and happy life ?

A man’s success is how he is as a son, brother, husband, and father. It matter how he treats his family in private and in public. And overall, he does a hell of a good job.

So true married to someone for twenty years three beautiful kids that want nothing to do with him a man that would prefer to be in the pub riding whores than at home with his wife and kids even bringing his mistress to his wedding a fact I found out after I left him bringing women to our house while I was at work and videoing his sessions on his phone our son found them and to this day he blames me no shame no responsibility for any hurt he has caused shame on him

I think it’s on both people to make it a success. To say that people just ‘let their home fail’ would be to generalize all marriages

Accomplishments in a relationship shouldn’t be measured by what the husband has achieved. Relationships are a unity & therefore any accomplishments made are a result from what the family achieves together. The only time it fails is when there is division & self-centred ways by those in the circle.

Absolutely!! Whatever the height of success a person can reach!! Eventually he’ll be applauded only if he has maintained a good Relationships!! It may be as a Father, Husband, Brother whatever. Because Life is all about Relationships!! That has a very weighted accountability!!

Wow! That Quote is from a “Totally scorned divorced Wife’s point of view” so one sided..As a now “single Father” who worked his ass off taking care of his wife and kids through an 18 yr marriage and now has most custody of his 3 kids and proud of it! Giving up everything for himself all of those years, after finding out his stay at home wife decided to cheat on him is getting a fat check every month because of Ca law’s completely disagrees with this post. I do appreciate the Women’s comments who have fucked up Men in… Read more »

A good man loves God first, prays for his family and will do everything in his power to help them. It’s very simple and very important in our days.

Sad part of this is that in 50% of the homes that fail in Marriage. Fail because of the 70% being women that filed for Divorce and gave up. That shows Men didn’t give up. Which shows women not getting what they demanded. If we stop beating on Men for the failed Marriages with statements like this. Started looking at women for not working as hard on the Marriage as they expect men to work on it. Then Divorce would be 70% lower in those 50% that got the Divorce. Being Married was held in high regard in the past.… Read more »

This is so true! So many men worry about what others think of them so theybput on an act, but what they should worry about is what their family wife and kids think about them. It is easy to put on an act for those looking from the outside in they can’t see the truth behind the lies. But the wife and children really know the true man all the good and the bad. Like I always say take care if home first, treat your family (spouse and children) like the treasure they are, and everyone who cares.