Unfortunately it takes a harsh truth for us to come to realization that they were not someone you expected.

Absolutely true, but once my heart catches up to my mind I realize I’m glad I listened to my head and not my heart, on several things.

And, that’s okay. Being in construction takes time, be ready to move when you’ve heard from the Lord.

I think some peope love more with their mind and not their heart I think true love is from the heart it’s been over 5 months I have no desire to date anyone I will never let anyone that close to my heart ever again. I I seen my old girlfriend in a restaurant setting 20 feet away from me she looked Right Thru Me like I didn’t not ever exist in her heart..

Mmmmmm, sometimes the key is to silence the mind to hear the heart whispers. The heart always knows the mind confuses the details.

I love him so much even if he cannot love me… I am so blinded.. I think by heart not by mind… ?

Holy crap!! Acceptance is everywhere today! The thing my mind knows and heart hasn’t accepted yet, doesn’t have anything to do with my relationship. Thank heaven that is fine right now! He has been very supportive during this time with the other thing, that involves health issues. I am very grateful for his support during this time. Acceptance…jeez.

Sometimes you don’t really know. I’m good at overthinking what I think I know. Guess I’ll find out eventually…

Tell me about it! I’m just glad that mine finally caught up and moved on, instead of portraying me to look weak and desperate by steadily convincing and confusing my better judgment that it was in my best interest to fight for an unworthy fool/unstable sociopath than it was to just take some time to reflect but yet keep my mind and heart open and ready for a much more compatible and trustworthy soulmate.

Bottom line: We, as women, are programmed to make things “right” regardless of our health or happiness. If I have learned anything after living through difficulties is that at some point, we need to put ourselves first. Be strong, live strong. (Not a Lance Armstrong reference, so don’t let him ruin it)

So in other words..REALLY GREAT AWESOME SEX..will cover up the truth about a Bad Relationship..I would of done the dishes ..for a … ….

hearts act dumb.. we are so blinded by what we want that the truth is hidden deep. sometimes right in front of our face

This is really unfortunate.. Because you know you need to leave.. But you’re so attached to them you don’t know how.. It all just takes time

The mind can’t erase love from the heart. Only reality can. And I hate it. Reality can be an intruder and destroyer of dreams. But wow, look, love blooms new again. And it will.

So damn true, sometimes loving someone really sucks. Especially when you thought they cared just to find out the truth! THEY NEVER DID FROM THE BEGINNING!!!

My case is a bit different. My husband passed away in 2014. He battled with colon and liver cancer for 3 years before he succumbed to his death on August 6. I was and is still devastated by his transition. He was a wonderful, caring, understanding, loving, gentle, intelligent man. I loved and respected him dearly. Other than my children and grandchildren, he was the light of my life. I’ve tried to move forward with my life, but for some reason I can’t seem to do that. I miss him immensely. He gave me 18 years of happiness and wedded… Read more »

That’s mostly where the problem lies…your heart and your mind don’t agree with each other. They say the mind is placed higher than where the heart is, for the mind to rule over the heart. I think, when you need to decide on something, give a bit more weight on what your mind says. Rein in your heart a bit more.

I wish my heart would listen to my head.. all the signs point to he’s through with us.. but my stubborn heart says not yet, we need to hold on so here we sit, silently holding on and hoping just once my heart is right.

A condition that i prefer to call Feeliological Conflict!

It happens when a conflict is triggered between your feelings and reasoning!

Sometimes we have that fear of rejection that even we already know that something is not right in the relationship,we chose to ignore because we want to save it.It hurts fighting alone and looks like stupid while the other party doesn’t care at all. Loving someone is not just all about happiness.Time comes,you will notice everything starts to fade away and it’s hard to decipher,because you know you’ve done your part,you were in love but then just a blink of your eyes the magic was gone.How could it happened?It’s not fair… Letting go is the last resort even it will… Read more »

Sometimes we just don’t want to face reality, so we end up not only hurting yourself but other people as well. And that is even worse, because in the long run we waste precious time that we never see again.

I know I have a habit of overthinking but that doesn’t necessarily mean I’m wrong. People act like overthinking is wrong but the truth is, the ones that call it wrong do it alot theirselves.

That’s a harsh truth. Unfortunately I am going through that as well but its all a matter of time, the healing process will eventually change you (mold you) into the person you have to become. They are called “lessons you needed to learn in life.”