Somtimes you feel healed other times you don’t. Just hold on to the times you feel you can get past it. Think about it as you would if someone you loved was gone and you can’t understand it. But life you can change remember that. You have control of your life don’t let anyone else make you think differently.

Yes!!! Was just talking about this the other day…. so true!!

It’s going to take me a while before I can heal from this wound.

will that day ever get here?

I don’t cry but for some time I feel sad…am I healed ?? Or what shall I do ??

Well I’m not there yet but working on it ?

True for emotional people.
The opposite is true for the unemotional.

I would add, “and when it doesn’t make you bitter/angry” you have healed.

I don’t cry anymore, but I am not totally healed.

Guess I haven’t healed then. :/ well time for me to go have a cigarette and try not to cry again. Salty cigarettes taste horrible -.-

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Disagree. Been divorced for 2 yrs, I don’t cry telling the story, but I am still just as bitter as the first day.

Not true. Some people have been thru so much pain and hurt in their life _they can’t even cry anymore . They are numb

True to a point but what happens when u truly know you have healed but now and again you cry because you realise how far you have came and the strength it took to get you there x

Soooooo true, so I diffently guess I am still hurting deep inside, because I just read the quote and it has me with tears in my eyes! I guess, I am still in shock, in the healing process! Soooooo much to patch up! It will take time, especially when you been hurt by many! There’s light at the end of the tunnel no matter what! Certain wounds take time to heal, having Faith and being Faithful is more important than anything else! Toddles baby!

So true I use to let my past define me now it’s just what it is the past I can’t change it I can only change how I let it effect my future

I don’t necessarily believe that. Sometimes the reminiscing alone can cause tears when healing has taken place. Just not true.

That’s nonsense….Perhaps it’s true for some people, but for most? It’s because you’ve been strong enough to move on, only day by day in some cases….and before you know it, a month has passed, then a year. It doesn’t mean you’re healed, that you don’t still shake with anger at what’s happened….it means you were strong enough to not be broken.

Not true it just means you’re brave enough not to let it get to you plus you tell yourself your stronger than that.

~ True. When you can talk about your ex and the pain he caused you without giving away a tear, you know you have moved on. 🙂

You have absolutely how I am of what u had done. I smiled at u, and the past still flashed before my eyes. Have fun pretending nothing was ever happened. I still remember. #forgivenotforget #howcouldyou #imhurt

I haven’t healed then. I still cry when I think about him or talk about him. Even my first love who passed away in 1984

When you’re in pain then there’s nothing wrong in crying. But remember there is always new day,new chapter of your story …..don’t be doomed by your darkness 🙂 #makesense #yolo

I can’t just wait to find my soulmate soon…who’s caring,loving,understanding and honest man to spend my entire life with settling down and having a family together. If you are intrested, add me

Not necessarily true. Depends how traumatic the event was. I can tell my struggles with ease but I’m still haunted by my demons. And it’s been over 5 years since the event.