I was just talking about this today with a friend. Also with my boyfriend not to long ago. People know we are together that’s not a secret. We just don’t have to flash it all over the place for people to know we love and care for one another.

Fuck your partner, that’s what he/she for! Believe me your life will get a lot easier!

my relationship is one month and they have more secret but i try to understand all coz he is my true love i keep my relation good..

I would keep my relationship with Karrueche Tran private without keeping her a secret!

Not everyone can afford to tell about who their dating though… People are quick to judge without knowing all the facts.

I know someone who is very secretive like they are hiding the relationship

Yes, so annoying when someone constantly post photos and love messages about her oartner. It’s a sign of possessiveness

I understand the concept of being happy and excited about your relationship and wanting to share that on social media. But there is a difference between doing it because you’re genuinely happy and doing it to try and validate your relationship on social media. The former is healthy, the latter is not.

I was a secret but then I let know I exist. Result : now I not exist for him anymore. That’s not love! He should have been proud of me.

I would tell everyone I was with someone once I knew I was for sure myself but at certain levels it doesn’t always need announced. I’m a single mom and I don’t tell my kids everyone I date that’s confusing to them! So sometimes it’s necessary to keep it quiet for a bit! My relationships effect more than me and if it didn’t then I wouldn’t care but it does! Plus I have a psychotic ex that stalks me and my kids dad so no I prefer to keep it quiet til I’m secure in my relationship itself.

Yup if U build up any secret one day it will exposed and from whom U kepp will known about it and think something else about your relationship

Totally! Yes, we know you’re married, but does every other post have to be a pic or comment about your spouse? Do you not have anything else going on in your life?

There’s reasons why people keep secrets and relationships shouldn’t be one of them, but private? Definitely. The definition of a secret: not meant to be seen or known by others. For a partner to feel like they are not meant to be seen or known by others is a very hurtful thing. We should be proud of who we love and if not proud enough to say that person is my man or my lady then there’s a big red flag. The definition of private is similar -not known by the public or other people, for the use of a… Read more »

#TRUTH Living as someone’s “secret”…under the guise of “privacy”…is incredibly toxic and does so much damage mentally and emotionally. Abuse is not always physical. 🙁

Secrecy is hiding your significant other as if there’s some type of shame… Privacy, that is understood and needed sometimes… Two very different things

I was in a relationship for 4 yrs I was a secret. His family didn’t believe in love marriage. It let myself b a secret. Really was horrible 🙁
So sad that 4 yrs was a total descression. Now I’m with a MAN who is proud of me!! Amen!

Really. I tried to keep a relationship private, he did everthing in his power to expose us. He must’ve felt hidden. Needless to say were not together now.

You mean like how you got pregnant with my son while all along the way you were married and now I have to pay for a paternity test because you is a lying as hoe who is using the system and our baby boy as a weapon? You sent him your tits from your phone, just mad you got caught. No… I absolutely do not believe that he broke into your bathroom while you were taking a shower, unlocked your phone took a picture of your titties and sent it to himself!!! After all, what sane human being would believe… Read more »

In a proper relationship both spouses need their time apart, I was always too jealous. I inprizoned my wife with love and goodies.

Yes! Know the difference.. You don’t have to post every second of your spouse and what not but when its felt like a secret because you aren’t included where you once were that’s what makes it seem like you are a secret. Not being private. As if you don’t want people to know that you have someone good in your life Here and there. It sends the wrong message sometimes also. That maybe you are not in a relationship and that’s when females/males start up.

Well-said. If someone is trying to hide their partner from the world then that person is really not serious about you and the relationship is not worthy.