Well not everyone can move on the spot so….There’s some ignorance to this post. Not everyone is able to just do whatever they want, it’s tough out there these days why do you think so many people are homeless or working 3 jobs to try to support their family. Sometimes you just have to get by to provide for your family and sustain a status. If you don’t have the right skills you may not get the job you want and be stuck at a dead end one. There are a lot of factors to consider, should people change what… Read more »

Easier said than done on all things you stated to do. Running away from “life” isnt always the answer.IMHO

To many people complain and don’t do anything to change because they are afraid to start all over again. It comes down to that they are comfortable with what they got and they make excuses why not to change

That’s what I’m doing. It’s hard as hell but I need to be happy. No more thinking of everyone else all the time. Time to start thinking about me.

I forgot I am 75 yrs old, low income and have meals-on-wheels delivered to me. That is one hell of an excuse don’t you think.

Accept those thing you can’t change. Find the strength to change to those things you can. Pray to your higher power for the knolledge understand the difference. Example, You can love him 100%, BUT, you can not make him do the the same.

Easier said than done. Sometimes it takes an act of God to force us to make these choices because even Hell can be comfortable once you’ve settled in.

Thinking that the problem is out there, and thinking it will be solved by getting new things, or going to new places, or having new relationships, .. etc IS the problem.
There’s nothing wrong with changing something external. But if you do not change internally (how you think, how you see the world and its events, ..), any change in the environment will be of limited temporary benefits.

Hope is for those who see the errors in their way and tries to make improvements for each other. If you know without a doubt that your partner does not wish to make improvements, think they’re right all the time and constantly makes you feel that you are the problem..then that is miserable.

Some times people just need to take there own advice. Most of the times they be the ones who be making all the excuses in the world in a relationship because they are the one’s who don’t know what they really want. so blaming others,is a way to make themselves feel Good. Some people say because you stop caring life gets better. Well you should Praise God And say thank you and hats off to you, if you really feel that way.

if there is n0 l0ve anym0re..excuses c0mes out just to stay in 0ne relati0n.,its very hard to keep in a relati0n just because of this.

This person has never had depression or been in a situation they couldn’t control. Everything in your life could be going right and you still feel depressed. It’s a chemical imbalance in your brain. It’s like telling an ADD kid to just “calm down.”

How about, instead of saying “leave your miserable relationship” you advise people to work on their miserable relationships. Many times, relationships fail because people choose to leave instead of working on their relationships. They stop communicating. Of course, this is not a fix all, there are many reasons why a relationship is miserable. It could be because they should have never gotten with that person to begin with. BUT, simply choosing to leave when things get hard is not always the solution. That isn’t the kind of message we should be spreading. Because all it does is make it easier… Read more »

The only thing I’m in control of is me. If I change my perspective about a situation it usually improves. I have found out, at least for me, God isn’t interested in changing my circumstances, He’s interested in changing me for the better. I’m sure this doesn’t apply to everyone and the fact that I mentioned God may offend some people. Once again, this is what I have discovered in my life. No rebuttals needed.

Except that wherever you go or whatever you do, there you are. So, if the unhappiness stems from something internal, making external changes isn’t always the answer.

I know one day , we need to decide for the benefit of everyone but If you think no chance for that person to change or you can’t change the life that you have right now then that’s the time for you to quit or give-up on that relationship.

I was afraid to start over so I stayed in an abusive marriage for almost 12 years . My only regret was not leaving him earlier. Finally found a good man that treats me well. It does get better !!!

Make changes. Remember that you are in control of your life. If someone is bothering you, you can let that person go. Take control of your life and do what makes you happy and life better.

This post is probably for people who are feel stuck and have tired everything they can…and when you feel stuck you often times tend to blame things on other when you are the one in control. It’s really not all about giving up maybe that’s how you feel but other see it in a different perspective.

I hear people complain about their lives, their jobs. Ect.. all the time. But they don’t do anything to change it. They would rather stay miserable instead of making an changes in their lives

Yes but often times the excuse is a constant action of trying to save a relationship that keeps doing the same thing to you. Some are so fucking stubborn they would rather try again and again, rather than eliminate the be shit that’s been bad for years. And then someone they started falling for and opened the door to gets hurt when they decide outta fucking nowhere that they want their ex, not you.

Yu cn also cut those frnds out of ur life who wear the mask of frndship but they actually want to destroy yu and ur happiness!!!!!

This is all will and good. But things arnt as black and white as that. It’s the shity grey areas that are forgotten about. Easy if you have a great support network. Or don’t have children. So just leave them move away from them yeah okay.