I submit myself to no one, unless it’s role playing of course. I can understand how feeling protected and safe feels great, but it should be both partners protecting each other, not just the woman relying on the man for this.

This is true for some. Other women just do it bc they love the guy. He really don’t deserve it at all but she loves him so much she does it to prove it to him. I can truly say from experience this is a sad ass existence. I genuinely wish I was born a man and this is exactly why I didn’t want a daughter ugh.

so true, all women want a man that can protect them, make them feel safe and secure, women want to be lead and to feel like they are taken care of and that they have nothing to worry about, but we don’t want to feel like we are weak or that we have to lead you no no, we want to feel like we are with a man not a boy that doesn’t knw where he is or where he wants to be in life, just grow a pair and man up, take care of us and we will take… Read more »

I am a strong, opinionated, independent woman but I still love to feel protected by my man.

I like to follow this page, but on this one I have to say “you can’t make everyone happy all of the time.” Not happy on this one.

LOL! wow, this is so 1950 ^ a woman doesn’t need too be “submissive”… how about being equals. this is 2016, not 1956

Respect him as your husband and lover and he will protects you to show that he cares for you..

Don’t submit to any man! The moment you do you’re in for a world of hurt! … You can’t keep what doesn’t want to be kept ..

After saying it for years, finally someone has explained what I mean when I say I have a “Protective Complex”.

I’ve always been a fan of RR, but this is really messed up. Regardless of your intentions, suggesting that it’s natural for men to control women is misogynistic and disgusting.

GTFO of here with this shit. A respect so intense she will do what pleases him? Fuck that. I respect my man by loving and trusting him, and receiving the same in return. None of this submission and staying in bounds shit. Stop perpetuating male “dominance” by posting disgusting shit like this.

Uhhhh most relationships have one person as the alpha. But this doesn’t mean submission it just means that one is more reliant upon the other.

But that’s not how respect works. You don’t aim to please someone out of respect.

I think this is true when you have a man worth submitting to. Its a nice feeling when you are with somebody who has got it, then you have to learn how to relax and be feminine again. Lord help me in that area because i will push you away in a minute! But they see it and keep coming back…. So you relax and feel more at ease

So true. Submissive, seductive, sexy, sassy , spiritual , and sensual ❤️❤️

Jazmin must have received marriage/relationship counseling from Jim Bob Duggar.

This makes sense to me even though it comes off somewhat sexist. I don’t like the choice of words but I like the concept. When you really think about it, it is true. We like to feel comforted and protected and secure! When we feel that, we naturally cling to the person that provides that feeling within us. We naturally trust that person and don’t look at it as a sign of that man controlling us but really just looking out for us. You really have to have a mature mindset and be ready for a good man to understand… Read more »

Surprised I don’t see a bunch of girls getting offended by this, I love having a man that I know can protect me. Call me old fashioned.

This is how it’s suppose to be as long as there is no abuse. A man is suppose to love her as he loves the Church and protect her. A woman is suppose to submit to the Husband but not in a cowardly scared way. To love and honor each other.

There must be respect for the man. Without it he will disengage. Once that happens the relationship will fall apart. Yes the man has to love, cherish, be loyal, caring, understanding and giving.

Did a feminist write this shit? You have to naturally be able to protect a woman but then if you do possess this “ability” only then will a woman act like a woman and be good to her man “thus allowing him to have this ability to protect her.” Omg. This is the stupidest thing ive ever heard. Have the natural ability so shell let you have the natural ability to protect her????

Women do not naturally submit even in this case, been there for someone that I maintained and took care of, to some women it makes a man look weak and submissive. Submission makes no sense, mutual respect for what you and your love do for each other. Unconditional love, honesty, loyalty and respect for one another, and add a patience.

The quotation above is true when 2 conditions are met: 1) When the man is WORTH submitting to, his woman will WANT to submit to his leadership b/c she TRUSTS his decisions and respects him and his choices/decisions f/them as a couple/family. Also b/c to submit to him pleases him, which inspires him to want to please her too. (This excludes all cases where the man is abusive. A good man won’t abuse this power when his woman submits to him; instead, he’ll cherish her more and want to protect her more b/c the more control she gives to him,… Read more »

“Submissive”, ” control”, & “won’t step too far out of bounds” (I took the liberty to correct your spelling error).. These words and phrases have no place in a real partnership/relationship. To add insult to injury, Jazmin is Latina. Gtfoh with this 1950’s rhetoric.

No a woman doesn’t have to be “naturally submissive” to be loved and protected by a man!!!You protect and love each other, you are both strong, you know when to give and when to take. You submit to each other at different times and fight for what you need at different times. A good man will always respect and protect the woman he loves and treat her as his equal, just as a good woman will do for the man she loves.