I certainly hope so. …I am tired of dealing with Bad Eggs in this basket of Life I have come across. ..I have to believe that the Lord is showing me these certain Men are not the one’s that I am supposed to be with. ..Amen

I disagree. A relationship is work. You can’t expect to get great results from doing absolutely nothing for them & vice versa.

If I have to constantly pretend to be something that I am not just to keep, then something is not right. It is not worth it

You said it right,baby, you have one of the biggest hearts I’ve ever known. You’re special! We’re you born in a stable, by any chance? ❤??

And I also think God does not bring them into our lives until we are Ready and only God is the judge of our readiness

For 10 yrs I had a person like that, I was always myself around him n so was he. stood right by me thru all my ups n downs in relationships, n even I guess brushing him off trying not to b in a relationship with him n now till this day he is still here by my side as my good friend n now we r both single. I must say the Lord is telling me not to miss out on a good guy like him.

Pfffft I wish, I’ve never been enough. No matter every single line i cast out, if ever a bite occurs and I get hooked too before I know it they cut the line I cast and drag me by their hook still embedded in me

You must do something to keep them interested
I mean that you have to adjust yourself you cant do stupid things all the time ?

WRONGGGG, all your flaws will keep them interested. Trust me, they’ll start bringing it up at friends houses, with their family. Youll be the joke in all the conversations he has…… and then they’ll deny it and say no its not trueeeeeeee

I’ll be alone when I die…I’ve tried it all, with my ex. A lot of good that did me, he still chose other women and porn. I’ve been single for 6 years, haven’t had 1 date until last November. I really like the guy I’m seeing, but it’s always on his terms, we mainly text, there are not many phone calls. I’ve voiced concern about misunderstanding the meanings behind the words I read without any feeling. It’s easy to misunderstand things when there only written words.

Before you look at my profile I’ll tell you why I’m single. I’m single because I’m NOT settling for less than I deserve. I’m not going to go in to a relationship with someone that’s looking for me to fix them or make them happy. That’s a sure dead end. To be a successful relationship both people need to go into the relationship whole.

I have been waiting all my life. I have hard believing alot of these things. I am to the point where I am starting to lose hope.

I believe this is true. And I would not want anything less than to be myself with someone brave enough to be exactly who they are.

whatsapp or facebook chat or friendslist does not mean everything….

what matters is the real friendliness and love in hearts…feeling the virtual existence as the real existence…
but it needs two people to be exceptional and natural with trust, truth, belief and understanding…

maturity and egoless acceptance of each other is the real essence…

So true! I do anything i can for my man for the simple pleasure of knowing hes happy we are in bed this morning freezing and all i could think of was how nice it would be to clean the snow off his car and warm it up for him. Being frozen i went to wrap my arm around him and he dodges me rolls his eyes and says i have to get up to go to work! Im soo sick of feeling like this the hurt and disappointment! I deserve better! Im in love with him nothing he does… Read more »

..in my experience u HAVE to make an effort every day bcos even the interest of the “right” person is temporary and will evaporate one day..

I think the majority of people commenting here DON’T GET IT. REAL LOVE IS this simple!! People are looking for someone or something else to make them feel complete or happy. Until you realize your happiness is an inside job you’ll NEVER be happy !!

Happiness comes from within each one of us. Nobody else can make us happpy. A marriage or relationship takes a lot of work give and take for both involved.

That person come in the right time.. but i think both of us make them effort ,so that the relationship make long last…?

I don’t think this statement means ‘you don’t have to make any effort’, I think it’s more from the point of view of women who feel they constantly have to put in more than usual effort to keep their man interested. You know like women who have a lack of confidence that they themselves aren’t enough to hold the interest of a man