I give up on the people I want because it always happens that whoever I want, no matter who it is, never ever feels the same so instead of torturing myself with the futile attempts at being noticed, I just stop trying when no progress is being made.

I didnt give up. And i didnt wait around for it either. I lived my life and it was a 10 year wait to get the man of my dreams but totally worth it.

Sometimes you need to recognize when to give up… Like when my GF says not interested and I tell you to back off .

just dıcoverd he was wıth someone for 2 yrz and We Now have a yaer and She is even ıntroduced so wats the poınt of holding on IT hrts but i just let gö hım

This is the biggest load of shit I have ever read! You know what sucks also??? Wasted time!!!! Bc that’s what happens

Dumb advice! Don’t pass up people who would treat you right, for the chance that the one you want will someday feel the same.

Its worth a second chance. If its not reciprocated well u know u give it a chance n now no regrets. The right person is worth the second change. We aren’t perfect. We mess up sometimes.

True, but when that person continues to lead that person on and really has no good intentions one has to give up. Keeping hope alive might just kill the love in their heart.

Disagree 100%! Just because you want something or someone badly doesn’t mean that it or they are good for you. Sometimes doing things that are the most difficult for you, like walking away, is actually the best thing for you.

Understood just my best friend I took care of her and went a little overboard I guess if she’d felt half the love I felt for her we could have moved mountains together Samantha I may fool around because I am a man but I am not getting emotionally involved anybody cuz you’re my one and only true love my love of a lifetime I’m still wait for that kiss that will last us a lifetime

It’s bad to walk around with regret but to wait for someone who has shown and said they slowly have lost interest but says they love you beyond love itself is pretty hypocritical. I won’t give uo, the hopeless romantic in me. Dam heart and it’s adversity

Unless that person pulls you in over messages only to come up with excuses as to why plans fall through all the time. If its true and real it will show in their behaviour, the lovey dovey words are nice and all but if they aint backing those words up then yea f**k those ones off .. Oohhh sorry is my bitterness showing?

I needed this! I’m willing to wait forever for my best friend. Should she really not feel “that way” about me, fine: I honestly don’t need a relationship to be complete. What I want is to be so much more, especially with her!

It’s also worse to wait around for someone who clearly has no interest in you. Walk away and move on.

Sometimes you just have to tho, when you see them looking for others & you’re right there.
For your own self, sometimes you just have to give up.

This makes no fucking sense. Why wait around when it clearly shows that the other person doesn’t care.. If anything they will regret it.

Why should i wait for 7 months for him to just get a job to ‘fix things’? All he needs to do is update his cv, hand it in to a company and he will surely get a job to make us both happy. But no. He sleeps over at his friends 24/7, never does anything, we have stopped communicating and he hasnt even tried to ‘fix’ anything when he has all the time in the world… Im sick waiting. Its 9 months today of waiting and i cant wait anymore. I cant rebury my dad or grandma either so… Read more »

This advice is kind of not too right. Yes if the person loves you and you love them and both are going through rocky road then do not give up. But if one end already gives up, why holding on and wasting time?

Sometimes its worst to wait,if a person want to be in your life he /she will make all possibilities to reach you 🙂 just move on when you didnt have any reply from the other side ,remember someone is dying for one message who really deserves you in the other side !

Wrong ? actually when you do that you get hurt twice as hard and feel like u got played like there is no tomorrow. If someone doesn’t feel u right then and there fuck em trust and believe its better to be alone than give yourself hope for someone to come around

Never say Never. How long can one actually really sit and wait? There should be no regret. Only lesson learned

I agree with this for the most part but I also do kno u can’t wait forever & the other person needs to realize that, and if u are the only one fighting for it, it is time to move on!! It takes both!!

It only works if the other person feel the same way about u, there is nothing one sided about a relationship

Never give up on loving someone u really love so much but f he’s not happy anymore,let him go,let him be happy…its not ur lose anyway…and plz remember giving up doesn’t mean u need to stop loving him,,u can stil love him but u just need to do d sacrifice for his happiness coz u love him so..and that is what we called as REAL LOVE.

Worst advice ever! Not everybody we want will want us back! Why wait around for someone who doesn’t already see how great you are! Always go after what you want but draw the line and walk away if it’s not reciprocated!