I don’t support judging anyone but has it occurred you that some people are the way they are because they want to be that way?That they actually enjoy being the way they are?

But… once you find out they are a lying, cheating a******… Judge away!

Yep… Everyday I encounter judge mental ppl… Its unfortunate- hopefully everyone will grow?

He acts like that because he doesn’t care…

yeah poor pedophiles and killers they had a rough childhood…

and that is the truth 🙂

Yah man think first, then tell them to piss off

This is true however you can’t use everything that happens to you as an excuse to be a dirt bag and treat people poorly

Accept the things to which fate binds you, and love the people with whom fate brings you together, but do so with all your heart.

Ok…but that doesn’t give people a right to go about acting like the world revolves around them, and gives them excuses to be selfish, manipulative, and toxic. Those types of people use their past as a crutch…but dont see the fault in their actions. Disagree with this.

i agree with you chuck white … best thing is to stay away and let them figure it out … even if you tell them they never do anything about it

Try deep thinking usually of what is this person before ur final judgment ….
not all the more gold that glitters..

Whether or not I judge them, doesn’t mean I have to associate with them, or put up with the bastards. They can take their bullshit somewhere else.

And remember that as an adult you are responsible for the way you act and treat people. Don’t be a douchebag victim of life circumstances. ???

none are good only what we allow Jesus Christ to do in and through us produces lasting good. And we all have sinned to judge another and their life is not up to us/

Don’t go around judging people you don’t know .No matter what their problem remember only man can be the judge of you and everybody else and that one person will judge you and that man is God.

Yea very true! Each individual experience in our lives mold us to who we are in life… We just gotta make the best of it all!

I admit, I’m quick to judge. But if my judgment is negative I don’t keep that person around. Some people will tell me, “maybe they are that way bc so and so.” I don’t care. There are too many people in the world to worry about one.

@Chuck.. U hit it right on the target!! U was with someone exactly the way u explained it.. Never took accountability for his actions.. Was a taker.. Was soulless.. Criminal minded all the way.. Women beater.. A Social path for sure.. He is someone that is a nuisance to society!!! He chose to be like that!!!

I know a few people who should learn this. They need to be more aware that everyday things change in others’ lives and cause that person to change also!! Not everyone plays games. Life happens!

If you really like the person you need to get to know them better before judging about how they act coz when you already know the back story you’ll understand her/him more than any other person.Love is acceptance because nobody is perfect.A real relationship is about being open minded,trust,honesty,understanding give and take,respect.

Manipulators come in all shapes sizes and sex.. first impressions aren’t everything.. But don’t pass them aside, either.

Sometimes, that’s the reason they’re judged, because of the way they are and the things they do. Their character or lack of character and bad behavior are not because of what they’ve been through. If that was the case, their behavior would be completely different. Completely true what someone else said…”past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior”.

So true. ..don’t be judgemental. ..People have their flaws. ..no one is without a past…look to the future. ..concentrate on the Now. ..You alone are responsible for your actions. ..

And sometimes that story is they led a life that was completely irresponsible, without character, honor or ethics. They usually haven’t the capacity for compasion or empathy themselves, if they do it comes with a cost. They rarely truly have any remorse or feel they should be held accountable for their actions and even try and play the victim. Talented narcissists and psychopaths gifted with the power of manipulation. I won’t give people like this a second chance, it’s not worth the risk. Any pychologost will tell you past behavior is a predictor of future behavior.