The first NO is the hardest. I had to learn to say no. Still work in progress.

Learning

I need to learn to say NO

Something I need to follow

This is so true…

Yes. This is true.

LIFE IZ ALL ABOUT CHOICEZ…

When you say FIRM “NO” , do not expect the other say “YES”

It’s the ones that say “I think so” that you can’t trust…problem is you love them so much you believe anything

This is so true! I got to stay doing this myself! 🙂

Righteously I couldn’t say it better

Can’t we hurt people with our decisions though? If not, I would really like to understand that. I mean I know the decision itself doesn’t hurt them, and it’s their choice how they feel and react, but what if there is an intention to hurt them, doesn’t that hurt them?

Let our words mean something. We will fail but we must try to follow through.

yes , we should said out true feeling , never playing by people , important be honest

Learning to say no…when you really want to say it…heals your soul

Speak the truth and with honesty. Never force something that is not right. Never force a relationship, never force yourself to do something that you know will hurt yourself mentally, physically, and spiritually.

Love is an unconditional commitment to an imperfect person. To love somebody isn’t just a strong feeling. It is a decision, a judgment and a promise.

No! Now shew. Some of these men act like they cannot comprehend. They act like they are my man or like they have serious issues. I have not spoken or even thought about a particular dude and out of no where I get a text talking about “I’m thinking about you.”

Me: “What’s up x”

“oh I’m bothering you, I won’t text…..have a nice life.”

I started to say tell Jerome I said “hi”. I send his “rib” these text messages and screen shot these fb messages. Pbs better stop playing with me.

yeah. I’ve noticed I hurt pple cuz of my indecisions. don’t kn how to cuz I never want to hurt others. but at the end, I hurt myself too and the pple. well it is slowly but surely

You hurt ppl by saying yes, cause you feel bad saying no, then not following through, than you would if you just straight up said no from the door. Same goes with saying maybe, knowing you have no intentions on following through. Better to disapoint for a brief moment, than to get someone’s hopes up and let them down. (This also causes mistrust) Better to feel uncomfortable telling the truth than living with guilt or having resentment over doing something you really didn’t want to.

Nothing mirrors more confidence out to the world than a firm No.
Nothing mirrors more insecurity than a hesitating Yes.