And don’t go giving people advice when you don’t have the capacity to take care of your own mental health. Get yourself together! Take care of YOU especially when you depend on the government to feed you and your kids.

I believe that completely.

Keep it simple and just build you and then the other thing will come so they say

can’t take care of others if you don’t take care of yourself

No one can understand you.

They’ll never understand….. They are stuck in their own bubble. That’s why I want to be in outer space..

This is a good one, really good one.

Take care of yourself first or you’ll lose yourself

Just don’t make them feel like nothing in the process

Xactly….we have to look on ourselves first den something else…

And so many don’t come back less headache and peaceful & I don’t lose sleep it ok wish them well kkkk.

If they are truly doing it for the right reasons. So many people just use this as an excuse with no action.

FALSE! The surest way to the ending of a relationship is selfishness. When two people come together it’s about WE. US. Not ME, ME, ME. That’s not too say one must lose themselves with another. Couples need to have each other’s best interest at heart. That’s where communication, respect, value & empathy come into play…

I understand, I just wish you could have wrote a single paragraph explaining what was up, I would have never bothered you again.

Hmmm…for me,i guess u both need to give love to ur own self,dont give it all while its too early for no regrets,i think its not selfish thought..

The key word is “sometimes”…This isn’t a free pass to be used as one’s over-used excuse to do whatever they want whenever the urge hits them. Frequent use- misleading bullsh*t.

Hard to do when your life is and have always been full of sacrifice! But one day you best believe the joy will be mine the reward will be worth the sacrifice in the name of Jesus!

This is my motto for this year. I’ve spent 18 years coming not even second, but last. Not this year. This year, I learn how to take care of me.

If they really love you they will take care of you to the fullest and give you everything they have to make you happy, that’s what a real partnership is . Not two people , two halves of the whole being.

A person can take care of everyone else, lose theirself in the process, n become too tired, too broke, n unhappy, sometimes you have to say no and make sure you’re okay n happy, why make sure everybody is straight when noone is making sure you’re straight not even yourself, key word SOMETIMES

If you are selfish don’t be in a relationship

And sometimes they don’t because they’re too hurt to see that you need to take care of your own brokenness before you can be anyones light in the darkness that encompasses us all. Some people are stronger. They shine brighter and keep it at bay with ease, while others cling to a feeble flame that threatens to fade and allow the darkness to swallow them whole. The only way to strengthen your light is to strengthen and affirm your happiness in you and your life. It takes time and unfortunately people get hurt along the way.

So, unless a man / woman finds themselves, and is satisfied with their life and accomplished some of their goals, and then they might not be able to give you all you need? Example.. Couple falls in love, he moves away after a year to go to school to become an actor. And they try long distance relationship. One would think that the guy is selfish, right?