Uh. No.
What happened to actual dating? You know where you can talk to more then one person? Because that is what dating is!!!

I greatly disagree. My ex wife was loyal when we weren’t married. After we were married she got a job finally and a month later she was screwing 3 of the guys from work and several guys that were customers. I never knew for 2 years of our marriage until I woke up one night catching her on top of an ex bf on our living room couch.

I so agree. Faithfulness is a part of your integrity. If I like someone, I don’t need to be looking anymore until it’s obvious that he doesn’t feel the same way. That’s when it’s time to move on.

I disagree. If you’re not official then there is no reason you should be expected to be loyal. That doesn’t define how a person will act once being in an “official” relationship. Just date until you’re serious then evaluate loyalty.

This is dumb, define unofficial and loyalty, this seems more like a problem in communication among two people than a sign of a healthy relationship, make it official, stay together for a long time and be true to each other, that’s when you know he or she is a keeper.

Dont be loyal until the guy makes full and well known theres interest and he shows it, not think the woman is a mind reader. Then it should be the womans choice if the attraction is mutual in that direction if she chooses to be loyal when it is not totally official especially if they both know that is what its leading too then its not in vain….in my opinion.

If man want to be with you there is no unofficial no hiding because he want to everone knows you are his if woman is a keeper without any those actions she is desperate no selfrespect but that is just my opinion

Like I saw on a video titled “How to Be Single” . If you have self control when you’re single and you’re honest and loyal, then you will be a great person to be with in a relationship. And by “unofficial”, they mean during the courting and dating phase. The phase that most people tend to skip. You must date in order to see if someone is good for you.

There’s one idiot in particular that couldn’t see that – but ultimately, it’s his loss. I will do much better than him! I remembered my worth, and no man will know me as well as my future husband will… cause I’m not sleeping with anyone again until I get a ring on it. Show me you’re serious and I’ll make you my world. If not, I’ll walk away and never give you a second glance.

From experience there’s a reason he’s not making it official , cos he still wants to be dogging about , therefore doesn’t make her loyal … dumb is more of an adequate description …a girl will wait and hope he changes …a woman will move on and know she deserves better !! Been there and got the t-shirt..and a loyal man more than happy to make it official

This may be true but if he dnt want u then he just dnt want u. Remaining loyal while its unofficial won’t mean a dang thing if he dnt think of u in that way. You’re just wasting time. Speak about a relationship, if you’re both open to it then keep at it. But if he’s on that naw man I’m not ready type stuff, dnt hold your breath.

what’s “unofficial”?? that’s sometimes a problem. communication is sometimes left behind, and assumptions are made. I thought I was in an exclusive dating relatioship just bc I was introduced publicly as his girlfriend. turns out he was still seeing his ex.

I disagree. If she’s loyal when it’s unofficial she has self esteem issues probably. This is how women get hurt; reading more into something than the man. To save all my ladies, please date…actually DATE. He doesn’t get to have all of you and you have a part of him. Dating should be fun! Talk to several guys but of course don’t sleep with all of them. Never put all your eggs in one basket until it’s official. I made the mistake of just talking to one guy HOPING we would eventually be official but it never happened. He ended… Read more »

That’s my problem and then it doesn’t become official LOL. For me if I’m interested in one I’m interested in one I don’t focus on others. You can always try to see others etc but deep inside you know who you want. So I’m honest to myself. Oh well when the time is right. I have to have faith that God will bring the right man in my life. Loyal regardless though if I love and care for you. Always positive =)

While men go out and do whatever they want when it’s unofficial ? How about no. Be an adult sit down and have the exclusivity talk, don’t just expect it, the person your dating isn’t a mind reader and probably doesn’t want to be played if your not official or exclusive

Screw that, if “he’s” loyal when it’s unofficial, then he’s a keeper! Why is it always based toward woman. If the man cant see that your a good woman, then keep walking and get out of the way.

I’ve heard Steve Harvey say normally most men will NOT marry a female that he has just a sexual relationship with. He does not transition her to marriage status. #Holddemcookies

If he wanted her he would make it official! 😉 it’s a two way… Not a one way

if a female is loyal in the beginning stage of the relationship the “talking” stage then she’s definitely a keeper and it goes both ways for guys too. Nowadays most females and males tend to have other friendships during the talking stage because it’s not really “official” you guys are not really “dating”. You’re getting to know one another to see if you want to start dating and at this point you’re still single

This is true. No it is not my choice it’s unofficial. It’s a distance thing. But we love each other and I have never questioned her loyalty. Keeper absolutely…I’m going to marry her

That’s a foolish set up for heartbreak! Loyalty without defining the relationship. You need to be on the same page.

Guys want girls to be loyal but wanna go around and fuck everything that moves and Then expect a girl to stay home and wait… Like NOOOOO NIGGA!!!!!! #HellNaw #HotLineblingWannabes?
P.s She’s not a Keeper, she’s an Idiot?

Emotionally mature people are looking for a loving, respectful and dignified relationship. It’s hard to find, but when you do, don’t screw it up.

I don’t understand why some women stay loyal when ur not official but he doesn’t stay loyal and they act like it’s ok. If he wanted more from u than sex he would make that clear and make it official. When he don’t make it official and you are still continuing to fuck him you become the dumb one by giving him his cake and letting him eat it too.

Damn straight I was loyal when we were unofficial but he wasn’t because we were unofficial ?