I’m afraid of trusting him again. Can a lier a cheater ever keep it one hundred. Took a 3,month break from a ten year relationship. But tells me he loves me everyday. Going back soon to have this baby but is that the right choice maybe not. Advice

I’ve finally reached the place where I can honestly say I’m happy just being me

But if you’re alone to long then it can be the same question.

How I wish my husband here with me…its been 44 years his in heaven I’m alone by myself…

Exactly .just to many desperate people out there.

I’m so comfortable with it i prefer the solitude. Sad but true. LOL

I’m a loner!!! I don’t actually choose, I just LOVE where it’s needed….you don’t have to chase, what you already possess!!! ;0)

So true…and if you put God first, you will find true peace and who and what really matters

I had 1 bf, and he was abusive towards me. Ive always been alone, but company is always healthy

Learned loooong ago…gotta learn to love yourself 1st so when the right person comes along its not to add too but to share with.

Being alone is great. And I won’t ever give it up unless I find someone who is aa crazy about me as I am for them. If not, it’s just me and my kiddos. No problem 🙂

Yeah but being alone gets old. I don’t care if I’m comfortable or not. We all need to be alone at time but not extended time.

I have always been comfortable being alone. But the idea of being in a relationship to share different things with them will always be great.

This is not true. I am not good in being alone and i totally chose my ex out of loneliness. I was with him 2 and a half year knowing i didn’t love him. Now i found the one for me and i love him so much, you CAN feel the difference!

When you choose someone out of loneliness, especially when you don’t realize it, always ends up disastrous! I made this mistake. Learned hard lessons. Human wisdom I needed to learn, as not to repeat again!

You gotta be able to love yourself, before anybody else can….

So very true! I’m definitely not rushing into anything! I don’t mind being alone that’s for sure! I know that the day I do decide to be with someone it’ll most definitely be because it’s Gods good timing! Plus the longer you wait to be with someone it reveals their true intentions and feelings for you! If you’re worth it to him he’ll wait for you! ?

Being alone is a wonderful thing. I love having me time. But I also love spending it with someone that loves me in return!

Until you learn to be happy alone you will never be happy with someone and like it says are you choosing them cause you love them or because of loneliness

I absolutely love being alone. I can do what I want when I want. It’s all I have known for 25 years and will not change that.

I’ve never chosen anyone out of loneliness. I’m just fine on my own. Wish more people would realize they don’t ‘have’ to be in a relationship at all times, and not jump from one relationship to another.

This is so true… to many times do we think we need others when its really ourselves that we need. I met the man of my dreams when I was finally at peace with myself. We have been married now for 6 years and everyday day I think to myself how lucky I am to be with him. When you love yourself you allow others to love you and are able to love others back. That’s the only way to live life!

I’ve been single for 46 years at one time when I was younger I wasn’t in a hurry to find love and was comfortable with my aloness. I’m now going on 47 and still single, still alone while everyone else around me is young and in love, i’m choosing someone out of both because I fell in love with them and i’m lonley. Been lonley and incomplete for far too long. It’s time I find someone to love and complete me.